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Lv 4

Will I go to hell for divorcing a man I don't love?

Update:

I married a man about 8 months ago out of spite. In my heart I knew I didn't love the man I married the way he wanted me to. I love the other man with all my heart. I know I made a stupid mistake by marrying this guy. I'm very much in love with the other man and want to be with him. But I'm afraid that because I married this other man, that if I leave him and break covenant with him that I'm risking myself of going to hell. I can't bare the thought of losing the other man forever.

Update 2:

No children between us. Just a marriage that should have never happened.

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    We are saved by grace honey and are no longer bound by the law, thank god for Jesus Christ

  • 6 years ago

    No loving God would have a person go to Hell or suffer in any way for leaving a loveless marriage. All the time in the Bible, it says that God is love. So God is not in your marriage. Get divorced and dont' worry about your loving God punishing you for that. If some random minister or priest tells you it's wrong, they are not interpreting the Bible correctly. In fact, they're completely missing the point.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    6 years ago

    If you are married to a man you don't love, then you are already in hell...

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    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Hell is whatever you create for yourself. There is no reason to waste your life married to someone you do not love. If the marriage can't be repaired, then end it and move on. This life is too short to waste it unhappy, when it's within your power to change it. Marriage isn't meant to be a prison.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    If there were such a thing as hell, you might. But i doubt there's such a place.

    If you don't love someone, there is no sense in staying in a marriage.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    6 years ago

    Let's face it, you're pretty much a wicked person at heart and you do not belong in heaven. Do what you are going to do

  • 6 years ago

    You need to be thinking about the man you are married to instead of how this will all impact on you. You freely admit that you caused the problem and yet you are still worried about what will happen to you. The other people involved should be your first consideration. At least you have realised your mistake and can take action.

  • crazy
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Cant change what the good book says. So yes, Hell is full of people and heaven is not. I always smile when someone says at a funeral... They are in a better place. Did you do the judging? And you know this for a fact?

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    No. If you believe in god, don't you think he put you on this earth to make the best of YOUR life? God would not expect you to be miserable for the rest of your life. At least if he is a loving god.

  • 6 years ago

    Try to love your current husband as he loved you and married with you.

    Still he loves you. Then try to be his good wife even you have other guy in your mind bc you already married and be loved.

    The God will not be happy with you bc you want divorce with a innocent good husband.

    Also your lover - in heart may hate you bc you already married and have sexed with your current husband.

    Even your lover- in heart, tell as still he love you, he will change his attitude in future based on you married with different guy. Then you have no way bc you dumped from both guy.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    I don't think so....but you're still a crappy person for marrying out of "spite".

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