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when do you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love them?
I have known my current boyfriend for a year and a half and although we have been on and off for almost that whole time, we basically started to actually really see each other (as in I met his parents) in March. However, we only officially declared that we were together to each other in probably May (even though knew friends, family, stayed at his house every night). He asked me out when he was incredibly drunk over the phone and said that he was tired of not knowing what we were and he loved me. But he has never said it ever since and he does get quite emotional when he is drunk so I'm not sure what it means. Lately we fight a lot and he has said to me, if it was any other girl he wouldn't put up with this, and I feel like this is because their is so much ambiguity around our relationship. I think for him he doesn't trust me because I spent a few night with one of his friends (before I knew who he was and was unaware that they were friends) and for me because there was a rumour debacle where he "apparently" spoke ill of me. However, generally we get along incredibly well.
Would it be appropriate to say I love you or even have a conversation about it or does it seem to messy, because I really do feel that way about him but I don't know if it will make matters worse.
3 Answers
- JackieLv 76 years ago
Its ok to say it. The problem with the 'L' word is that no one knows what it means because each person has their own deifinition of love. The imortant thing is to take time to explain what it means to you. When you say you love him give him a detailed understanding of what exactly those four little letters represent. Usually girls tend to just use it to describe a feeling they have but then when a guy says it they look at it as an agreement to live up to all their expectations. Its a bit of a double standard. Just talk about it
- Anonymous5 years ago
I don't know if you'd call mine romantic lol....He's my very first boyfriend ever, we've been together over a year...I'm 19 he's 21...anyway. We were going out 2 months I think before he told me. I knew how he really felt about me cause he wrote a song and all that. Well, we were laying on the couch in the dark after....you know, and it literally took him 2 hours to say it, he was so nervous but he said he really wanted to say it. He was like "you know what I'm trying to say right?" and I'd be like "No" even though I knew, and he was like "a four letter word, starts with L ends with you?" It was funny but it was sweet at the same time, he eventually came out and said "Celeste (my name), I love you...:" it made me feel really good! He doesn't tell me often, he shows it but, still...he means a lot to me.
