why is it always the guys fault when a women gets pregnant?

Because she's upset and feelings disgusting about herself. She's got sooooooo many hormonal problems going on right now. I think the two of you really need to sit down LIKE ADULTS BECAHSE YOU HAVE TO BE NOW. and maybe talk about your other option of adoption because it seems to me that you are both pretty immature and not accepting this child already and they aren't even born yet... Neither of you are looking at it from the other persons point of view. She has to see how you feel and you have to see how she feels. Communication is key, if you dont have that now, once the baby comes I don't think it'll bring you any closer only push you away.

She's probably just upset that she's pregnant, and since you're not the one who has to go through pregnancy, she is blaming you.. There really isn't a good reason unless you raped her...

You should've but a condom on or she should've been on some type of birth control

Because you are the piston and she is only the cylinder. The buck stops with the MAN, ultimately.

to me it's like letting someone punch you in the face and then blaming them

Have you considered adoption for your child? No one deserves to be unwanted.