Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

When I was younger I used to backbite A LOT. Do I have to ask all those people for forgiveness?

Assalamu alikum.

I am 15. When I was around 12 I used to backbite more than you can imagine. That year I befriended two friends who would always gossip, and I later started gossiping with them. We used to gossip about almost everyone. We would gossip about a girl for wearing shorts. We would gossip about this other girl because she brags. We would gossip about another girl who is always trying to be cool. We would gossip about a boy who always tries to be funny. We would gossip about another boy because he flirts.

You get the point. The amount of people we gossiped about is so much.

Even though I knew it was haram, but still did it, I was young. Will I be held accountable by Allah(SWT) for all those people I gossiped about when I was younger but that I regret talking about now?

Now I try my best not to gossip and I tell my friends that I don't like to gossip. I accidentally let something slip every once in a while, and I do ask those people for forgiveness.

But my question, do I have to ask all those people that I gossiped about when I was 12 for forgiveness?

Jazakum Allah(SWT) khair

4 Answers

Relevance
  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Wa alaikum salam Yes you should ask for apology to all those people who have been backbitted/gossiped by yourself because Allah would not forgive you if the related people still do not forgive you.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Just pray, read Quran, give to charity and ask Allah to forgive you for the sins you committed in the past.

  • Anonny
    Lv 6
    6 years ago

    Nah just dont do it again. Let go of the past its the past dor a reason

  • 6 years ago

    Okay

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.