Am I bisexual or bicurious?

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I am fourteen, a lot of people tell me that usually during puberty is when you become bicurious. (tmi) But I started at eleven and just now noticed this? I don't want JUST sexual relationships with the same sex (female) I want to hold their hand, kiss them, give gifts etc like a hetero couple. I can see myself loving one, but not marrying one. My preference always seems to change, tho. I am a kid who doesn't get as much crushes, I mean I find people attractive (both guys and girls) but the crush lasts two days lol. So I guess I have to wait until I find that one person. I feel the same way towards both sexes, I get butterflies and all and think the same way.

Even if I am not bisexual I will always be open minded when it comes to who I date. If I happen to fall in love with a girl, good, a boy, that's okay too. I am just so confused.

Anonymous · Answer

it sounds like youre bisexual. i think bicurious is more when someone knows they're straight, but in the back of their mind they wonder what it'd be like to sleep w someone of the same sex. i'm only a year older than you and right now im pretty sure im a lesbian, but since i was 13 i've been confused whether im a lesbian or bi. its totally fine to be confused and i stopped worrying about whether i was gay or bi when i just stopped worrying about labels and let myself like who i liked you know? :-)

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You sound like the opposite gender me one year ago. I'm bisexual and can't see myself marrying anyone ether.

Love, Sweden.

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