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Would you date a guy that has no friends, but is actively outgoing at various meetup groups he attends during the week?

Like let's say a guy chose to not have friends, but acquaintances that he sees at a social group various times during the week. And the guy's choice is to socialize with people, but does not desire a set companionship outside of having a girlfriend because he values romance over companionship. Would you be willing to date him at all provided he actively keeps attending several meetups each week?

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  • 6 years ago

    Not having and keeping close friendships is one of my red flags. There is something to be said for someone who has the ability to develop and maintain strong connections with other people. If a person prefers not to make those connections and/or has difficulty making and keeping them, this is a strong indicator that a strong connection will likely not be made with a romantic partner he/she gets involved with.

    People who have trouble developing strong connections with others are less likely to be faithful in their relationships, they are less likely to invest much of themselves into a relationship, they tend to be more selfish and not as caring as far as what the other person wants/is feeling.

  • 6 years ago

    Of course I would, as long as he has no problem with me having friends, it would be fine

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