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I need advice, I'm confused?
I have been with my fiance' for 6 years , he is disabled (he's on a wheel chair) and so far I thought that we had a wonderful relationship. But just the other day, he was talking about his past and he told me that if his ex- wife would have been the one to take of him instead of his mother, his life would have been better today. (they have been divorced for over 20 years and have 2 kids together). I am confused as to why he would still think this way, after we've been together for 6 years. any advice.
I've done everything I could to help him and I feel that all my hard work is in vain.
3 Answers
- seedy historyLv 76 years ago
Likely because he wouldn't have spent an extra 14 years being his mother's little boy after he became a man and a father. Being in a wheelchair, in and of itself, does not designate the need to have a woman take care of you. What's going on with your husband that he needed to move back in with his Mom after his 1rst wife dumped him and before he found you?
Source(s): My son's been in a chair for years.. takes care of himself. My husband's in a chair... takes care of himself, but only sorta and relies on me quite a bit for things his therapist says he could do for himself. - edieLv 76 years ago
he needs to let the past go. be thankful to you. you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel. after all of this time he should be grateful to you for sticking by him and helping him. his ex must have left because she didn't want to be with him in a wheel chair. it is not easy to care for someone with a disability. talk to him and let him know that you resent what he said. get some understanding with him and fid out what he meant when he said this.
- linkus86Lv 76 years ago
This is comment has nothing to do with you, or his ex-wife. It is an issue he has with his mother. Its pretty common behavior to blame things in your past on your Mom.
