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Went out with a girl on a date to a museum. Having mixed feelings about her intentions. How to tell if things look promising?

Ok so about a month ago, my sister-in-law hooked me up with a friend of hers. Her friend (let's say Molly) was pretty cute, smart, good sense of humor, but shy. She also just broke it off with her boyfriend a month prior to the meet. So after the meet I suggested we meet up and get to know each other. She seemed enthusiastic about it and next thing you know we are at a museum, then out for a nice dinner.

Now I thought things went well, as I mentioned my family had a parrot, she asked when she could meet him and said she'd like to hang out again but her schedule was chaotic the following week. Later that week I tried to see if she was available the following week. She said she was busy, but sent a kind message about trying to stay warm as there was a hwat warnjng. Skip ahead two weeks later, I decided to give her a call. She said she was between jobs and probably won't be able to hangout for a few more weeks.

So my question to you is what ahould I do. Is this girl actually interested in hanging out? Fyi she did just break off a relationship and is actually looking for work after a busy summer, but I'm not really getting a direct answer here. Should I wait, or move on?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Dating Rule: When they like you, they MAKE time for you.

    If she had been on a date with Harry Styles or Robert Pattinson, would she be telling him how busy she is with her chaotic schedule and then busy for a few weeks?

    Do NOT contact her again. She has low interest in you.

    Here is another Dating Rule: Don't take a person seriously until you make it to 10 dates.

  • P
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    If someone can't make time for you within a 3 week period (assuming they are not traveling) then it doesn't matter how busy they are, they are simply not interested in a relationship. She's saying she's not really interested.

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