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Should I hang out with this guy?
Basically there's this guy I met through my best friend. He seemed cool at first, but then he got to being really really weird, clingy, & slightly obnoxious. If I don't answer him he'll send me over 70 messages in a row, he stalked my best friend & always talks about the most strange, awkward, & inappropriate things. It makes me really uncomfortable.
I honestly don't like him at all, but I feel really bad because he has autism & a lot of people don't like him (& he knows that). I don't really want to hang with him, but he calls me his best friend & although he has his quirks he's a good person & has always been a good friend to me. He wants to hang out this weekend, but I don't know if I should. A part of me wants to be a good person & just do it, but another part of me wants to stand my ground & not be guilt tripped into letting people into my life.
What should I do?
4 Answers
- ?Lv 76 years agoFavorite Answer
Call him, tell him something has come up ( It has come up it is whether you should focus on yourself or others).
Polonius, in Hamlet, said: To thine own self, be true.
That I would suggest that you need to concern yourself with how you are doing, whether you want a relationship with a disabled person who needs more attention from you than you can possibly give to him. However, it is your choice. Good luck. I was a college professor.
- Liberty FLv 76 years ago
no, don't hang around so much. If you accept he will think in his head that you are his official girlfriend and what are you going to do if he wants to kiss ? A man is not like a woman. Woman like 2 types of men. The one that they think is their friend, and the one they will love. Men are different: you are either interested and will end up in bed or he is waisting his time and will move on to another girl. Make it clear with him and tell him that he is in the friendzone only. He has to know that.
It's nice of you to have a heart for him but don't fall into the trap of later being told by him that you led him on...
- Anonymous6 years ago
Yes
- Anonymous6 years ago
He has autism. Wow you are SO RUDE! The kid has autism, do you know what that is? And you want to DITCH HIM? You're a horrible person. Go learn what autism is, then come back, you ignorant ***.
