What to say on a coffee date?

You need to ask her personal question that are open ended. Do not ask her questions that only require a simple one word answer. Ask her questions where she has to give an expansive answer. Also be prepared to answer any questions she may have for you.

You also want to bring up romantic topics in conversation. You want her to know you are very interested in her that way. You are not there to shoot the breeze and make small talk. When I say romantic topics in conversation, that doesn't mean you bring up sex way too soon. Unless of course she brings it up. Then it is fair game.

An example of bringing up romance in conversation is asking her about what she finds romantic or how it felt the last time a guy made her feel warm and fuzzy inside. You want her to get into the that frame of mind when speaking to you.

You want to keep the coffee date short and sweet. You also want to end it when it is going at its best. The reason why is so you leave her with a good impression and wanting to be with you more. Don't do like a lot of guys do and talk her ears off until she is bored to death with you. Coffee dates should be no more than 45-60 minutes.

When the date is going its best and you are feeling a good vibe, excuse yourself by telling her that you either have to go to work or be in class. At that point, you ask her out for a date on Friday and Saturday night. That way you let her know you are really interested in her.

that takes a lot of practice and cannot be taught over night, just casual talk like what she like to do, hobbies, sports, etc etc keep on looking for anything both of you have in common, when you find it, it would be a lot easier to carry on talking on that subject, my advise to first timer is to be open with her that this is the first time you actually dated anyone, by declaring that it will take off the pressure and stress inside you and she'll understand and help along the way to make it a great date

Ask her questions. All females love to talk. Guys don't.