What to say on a coffee date, and plan another one?

THIS IS MY STORY, It's a TRUE Story.

On my 1st Dates, with New Girls, I'd picked them up at their house. On the way to dinner there would be that awkward silence that increases the discomfort between guy and girl.

So I'd ask her "Are you nervous?"

She would say "Yes"

I'd say "Good."

She'd asked "Why is that good?"

I'd replied. "Because if you're nervous, then there is no need for me to be nervous. You can be nervous for the both of us. I'm just going to enjoy myself on this date."

She'd laughed and we'd start talking.

It was that easy to get rid of the Tension we created for ourselves.

Conversations are EASY. Smile and ask her question she will enjoy answering or talking about. The idea is to keep a smile on her face. Funny Stories, Jokes in Good Taste, Compliments, Fun Questions.

"HER" Enjoying your company is WHY she would agree to see you again.

The event is irrelevant. YOU ARE THE DATE. It's YOU she is agreeing to see... NOT WHAT YOU DID. That changes, YOU don't.

TO SET UP FOR A 2nd DATE: If She impressed YOU. At the end of the date, SMILE BIG and say "I don't know about you, but I had a good time.

I'd like to do this again, if you don't mind."

With YOU Smiling, She'll smile and agree it was a good time,

then probably agree to a Second Date.

Use this phrase for setting up a Second Date OR MORE if you want one.

If She didn't impress YOU,

Thank Her for meeting with YOU and say good bye.

(if She ask You for a 2nd date, ask Her WHY??

If She Impresses you with Her answer, She maybe worth a second time)