Is he cheating me?

It is never wise to marry someone you don't know. It is also never wise to date someone and be used. There is a middle way, my sister in humanity, and that middle perfect way is called Islam. Leave others, focus on God first and He will guide your heart. He will place His love in it first and you will see with His light. You do not know the expanse of love and life that is available to you as a human creation of God, if you do not open your heart and mind to Islam. You are always welcome to email me from my profile, if you wish to learn more about Islam. About life itself, as we consider Islam to be the real beginning of a person's life.

For goodness sake, are you that naive? You have only just met him.

After talking to you, he calls the next girl and tells her exactly the same things as he has told you. Then after that, he tells more girls and pulls their heartstrings with the same rehearsed lies.

Your guy is a very well-practised liar who can switch on charms and tell you all the very beautiful, lovely comforting LIES that you so love to hear.

He ONLY TELLS you he loves you but doesn't mean every word. Only telling is not the same as showing or feeling.

Look girl, he is only playing you for a fool. Sure, he can promise you the moon and stars but he is never going to give you them. Get this, he's only after one thing from you and that isn't love.

Truthfully, no guys would ever marry you in such a hurry as you suppose. Any guy who is truly in love with you would never ever make lame excuses to avoid you as your Muslim guy just did. I spotted red flag in just what he said to you.

Look kid, there was a user here in this section some years ago. Her username was Neffetiti who was blonde like you and had a Muslim boyfriend so like yours.

For 3 years, Neffetiti believed in him and sucked his love lies. Those 3 long years, she yearned for a love marriage with him. She waited and hoped for his marriage proposal, but he always had excuses, for example, saying that his parents wouldn't approve of her because she was a non-Muslim and a western blonde, not of same race. He had excuses not to marry her.

Everyday for 3 years, he TOLD her that he loved her and thought her very beautiful. Neffetiti listened and believed him without questioning.

One day after 3 years, Neffetiti heard that her two-timing boyfriend had proposed a marriage to an American woman, a blonde and a non-Muslim like herself. He had cheated on Neffetiti for 3 months with this woman and he proposed marriage to that woman instead.

After that, what did he tell Neffetiti to do? He told her he intended to marry the other woman and that he was not ever breaking off the engagement. But he nevertheless invited Neffetiti to be his MISTRESS, not his wife, because she was *not really the special woman of his life. I did many times warn Neffetiti But she didn't listen.

No body can judget that person just by saying what religion he is.

If he really interested in marry you then sister what i suggest, might be he is pious muslim then ask him to allow you to meet his family.

Then meet his mother,sister , try to chat wiht them and see if they also itnerested in marriage or not? because if their mother is not then you might also face some issues too after marriage.

I think , the best way to judge that guy for you is to ask him to meet his family, then if you are satisfied check his background and job too.

and then finally, ask him to say his mother/sister to bring you marriage propsal to be sure he is serous and not cheating and he is marriing you openly with knowing to his family too.

Never marriage a guy if he does not want to disclouse that to his family .

Okay basic things about the Islamic marriage..in Islam, only the man can divorce his wife the woman doesn't have the right to divorce.

Wife beating is allowed in islam .....Qur'an (4:34) - leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great

The Muslim man can marry many wives up to 4 of them..Quran (4:3) - "Marry of the women, who seem good to you, two or three or four; and if ye fear that ye cannot do justice (to so many) then one (only) or (the captives) that your right hands possess."

Also women are considered deficient in intelligence ..Bukhari (6:301) - "[Muhammad] said, 'Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?' They replied in the affirmative. He said, 'This is the deficiency in her intelligence.

Salam.I think he is telling the truth to you honestly.He talked with you in line with the Qur'an and hadith that dating style in western countries is forbidden in Islam.You can invite him at your home and introduce him to your parents if you are attracted by him,.But if you do not attracted by him you must ignore him

leave that one alone or you will marry have kids and never be accepted into the family.Im white my husband is afican american and his family hate white people.Our 4 kids missed out on having a grandpa and gramma because of their small minds.IN a way im glad because they wernt exsposed to that crap.But its sad and acward when daddy leaves to see his parents and they wont accept our kids.

He's most likely lying to you. Muslim men will marry a girl their mom choses.

Shimmy shimmy ya

troll, weren't u in love with a 13 year old last week

Terrible idea, just...awful.

Go read a book or something.