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when would be the best time to tell my gran im getting a puppy?

i am going to be getting a puppy probably next year at easter but possibly sooner.

thing is i am really close to my gran and i tell her everything but i know if i tell her im getting a puppy she will worry.

she has a lot to worry about what with me being severely disabled and ill, her not being able to get in touch with my uncle (her youngest sun), her daughter (m aunt) over doing things and never giving her self a rest even though she has hyperthyroidism and never seems to have a day off, her best friend struggling to get hearing aids that work, her other friend (a man) being very clingy and weird (he came and looked through her window i one evening with his face up to the glass and he even called her in the middle of the nigh (she has a phone by her bed) and staying silent. when he eventually spoke he denied that he even called her and infact that she called him but it was not her number, she could not get back to sleep after that as she lives alone. he also randomly comes over and goes into her garden. he tries to get her to tell him personal things.

we don't think we should tell her at least until the puppy is born but we also think i should wait until i have the puppy or am on my way to get it but i am thinking about not telling her at all and she just finds out when she sees the puppy in person.

i just don't want her to needlessly worry.

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  • 6 years ago

    Why do you worry about your grandmother? ... I'd worry about telling your PARENTS that you plan on getting another animal that THEY will have to care for.

    They are the ones who are going to have to supervise and housebreak this puppy 24/7, they are the ones who will have all the expenses of this dog, and all the WORK of this dog. You admit in other questions that you can't even clean your own fish tank or feed your fish.

    Spend time with the dog you have now - your parents don't need the added work of a puppy.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Unless you live with your grandma, I don't see how it's any of her business. I wouldn't tell her until I had the dog and things had adjusted and were good. Even then, it's not a big announcement. Your grandma really shouldn't worry about the dog. It's not a reason to worry.

  • 6 years ago

    Where are you getting the puppy? Not at a pet store or from a backyard breeder, I hope.

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