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Love sickness cure?
I met this guy at work this summer and he made me smile and laugh everyday. We never had a bad conversation and he made all my previous crushed go away.
I'm about 80% he liked me back but he works a second job that rivals my families business (he used to work for my family and left to go to this business) and so him and my dad are not on the best of terms so I think that kind of scared him a bit from telling me how he felt. I am way shy and way inexperienced with relationships to tell him how I felt. Also there is an age gap. He's 29 I'm 19.
I do think he liked me though because of body language stuff though.
Now that the job has ended and I left our hometown to go back to college I think about him all the time and I miss him so much. there are these guys that like me in my classes but I always think about how I'm gonna turn them down because I truely love someone else.
I just want to know what to do to get over him. I miss him so much and I always think about how my life would be better if I was with him.
3 Answers
- 6 years ago
I know how you feel, sweetheart. I am love sick all the time. It's like your heart is roaring to love and yet, it feels hollow and too big to contain in your chest. I recently like this woman, then I found out she's with someone. I wasn't hurt badly, but I was saddened that I thought she could like someone like me.
You could phone him up or go back home when you've got the time off and go and see him. Talk to him. Work things out and come to a mutual ground. If you really love him, you'll both do anything to make it work. Despite the rivalry.
Or, if you don't want the pain to go on, you could move on. Meet new people or ask one of the guys in your class out. Just as friends and take it all as it comes.
Love is never easy. When it's winter, it feels like summer and when it's night it feels like day and we can see things clear. But sometimes love require us to loss a bit of ourselves in order to improve as a person and become so much more than we were before. I hope this helps.
- 6 years ago
just accept that it wasnt meant to be. if you keep thinking about being with him, youll never get over him. know that there is someone better waiting for you in the future :)
