Why can't I find a real boyfriend?

Guys who are intimidated by you lack self confidence and probably get nervous being around you. Like yourself, I'm smart as well and easy on the eyes, but am currently married. However, when I was single, most of the guys that approached me were confident, but somewhat arrogant and players. Took me a while to find a confident guy that wasn't a player so I count myself lucky for that.

Don't worry about it. You'll find a good guy eventually and don't settle for less.

I don't think it is supposed to be easy unless you have low standards. If you want quality, you have to look harder than most. If you want just anyone, I'm sure you have access to that. If guys are intimidated, then there is probably a whole bunch that are just too shy. Why not be a bit more assertive? A lot of women aren't because they want to be chased/pursued, because on some level they are told to believe that it is a sign they are worthy or valuable by media and society. Seems a little vain to me. If you have to be the one to initiate, but you end up with a great guy in the process, does it matter he didn't seek you out? What is more important, a bit of your pride, or a rewarding relationship?

Nobody can answer that on here. We don't know you, we dont know your history or anything about you. You can't make accurate judgement based on some key words.

I assume your a troll

Maybe it's because you seem to be a little self-absorbed. Maybe if you spent more time thinking about them and less about yourself, you might find someone willing to take on such a fabulous wonder woman.

All they care about is sex. You're probably better off without one.

my attentions are drawn to who you are....exterior looks are only a bonus....