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I left my husband yesterday?

I found a string of messages from him telling this woman that he loved her. I m devastated. He hasn t rang/text or answered his phone as we need to talk about our daughter and our unborn child. What should I do?

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  • .
    Lv 7
    6 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I'd suggest you go back to the house to have that talk, since he won't answer your calls. Then decide what to do from there, based on the conversation you have with him. It may have been a bit abrupt for you to leave before speaking with him, but that may well have been what would have happened after the conversation anyway.

    Who knows, maybe things can be repaired. Something's wrong in the marriage (from his viewpoint, anyway) but that doesn't mean it can't be fixed if you both want it bad enough.

    Good luck to you!

  • 6 years ago

    Sorry to hear that, special when there is another child on his way. I would confront him somehow, even visit him at work if he is not speaking to you. I believe he speak when you confront him at work, as well would try to get in touch with his friends if there know about that he is cheating on you. Or follow him when you are able to do that. Also when you know in your heart that you will not likely get together with him again, He own you an answer because of your children .That's very nasty from him not to answer your calls, shows that he is a coward in my view,and not to be honest how and what he feels that he is cheating on you like that, you are both adults and it should be possible to talk as one. I wish you the best outcome for you and your children. We are Woman and can be Independent.

  • Meow
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Give him a week to get back to you. If he does not contact you within a week, go ahead and get your ducks in a row, you and your daughter go visit friends and family, you will need their support a lot right now & conquer the world as a single mother.

    When the loser wonders where you and your daughter went, and why you appear so confident and sure about your decision to leave, that will make him crap himself. I bet he's expecting you to sit around moping, prove him otherwise (even if you're in pieces, just fake it in front of him).

    If he wants a second chance, you need to weigh out the pros and cons of that.

  • I would leave him alone. He doesn't want to talk to you and if I were you, I wouldn't want to talk to him. Take the children and become insanely independent. When, if he wants to see the kids, he will come to you. If not, then you know you married a jerk. I would in the mean time see a family attorney and file for custody etc. Good luck!

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Leave a message asking him to call back . That's what I do when I make a call and don't get a answer .

  • 6 years ago

    by leaving him you have given him the freedom he has obviousky been yearning for. all you can do is to keep trying to talk to him. it might be the case that once he's had sex with the other woman he will quickly lose interest in her and then want to come back to you. its then upto you what happens next.

  • 6 years ago

    Get his phone and send this message. "I don't think that my wife likes me talking to you. She did have a problem with my last girlfriend, and that girlfriend disappeared. Her parents are still looking for her... But this is not something that you should be concerned about.?"

  • 6 years ago

    as scott said firstly have an abortion as you don`t want the child. then go out and find a man which will take care of you

  • crazy
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Why did you leave? You should have made him leave. You do have to think this over. It might be worth it.

  • mmm
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    for now, leave him alone - you're not helping matters

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