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Do I tell her the truth or lie?
I told this girl I wouldnt smoke weed. Unfortunately I did.... I feel like I should confess when she asks me. But, if I tell her the truth, I will let her down. I know she saw the amazing qauilties I have. I really really wanted to prove to her that I m better then that! But I ****** up .... So if I lie, she thinks I am a good person. Her feelings don't get hurt and I just have a guilty conscious.... Is it better to lie or tell the truth? I already feel guilty as is and I don't want to make things worse.
2 Answers
- Anonymous6 years ago
Always tell the truth. Always.
1) You don't have to "keep track of" the truth. It's the truth. You start lying and you end up with all this fake stuff you have to remember.
2) People will surprise you. Tell the truth, admit your faults, and people are pretty forgiving. Get caught in a lie and no one will ever trust you for all eternity.
- plannerLv 76 years ago
it is always best to tell the truth. lies have a way of coming back to haunt you. besides, lying about doing drugs is part of the very mind set that keeps people in bondage to drugs. refusing to own responsibility for one's actions is part of the drug abuse culture.
you cannot base any relationship on lies. she will find out somehow and will be even more let down that you lied to her. why compound what you did. as it is right now, you messed up and did drugs, but if you also add a lie to that, it compounds what you did wrong and makes it twice as bad.