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  • Should I say sorry?

    It's been two years since we have been friends and 4 months since we talked. We stop being friends because she said we could be the best ever, aka a tease.

    I cussed her out twice and she said she call the cops on me if I contact her again. I never truly apologize, only over text.... I want to write a letter and give her 40 bucks for dealing with my rudeness.(40 bucks so she doesn't call the cops). i do it in person but she said she call the cops. I know she won't forgive me and wants nothing to do with me, it's just to clear my conscious. Should I say sorry anyways and risk being called on by the cops?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Should I apologize?

    This girl was my best friend once and she said we could be the best ever at one point. There was a strong bond between us, strong enough that we confused our friendship and thought about dating. I kissed her once. But anyways, instead of dating, the timing wasn t right and it went up in flames. I cussed her out over text on two separate occasions about a yr apart for her saying we could have been the best ever and flaking on me when she could have told me no straight up.... I tried apologizing over text and she said she call the cops on me if I try to contact her again. I ve never raised my voice at her and had an argument in person.... anyways I plan to leave a letter on her car saying sorry and 40 bucks so she doesn t call the cops on me. I know she won t forgive me and want to be my friend again, but the cash is for the trouble I gave her... it s been 1 1/2yrs since we have been friends and about 3 months since we last talked. I want to apologize and be a man about this, instead of some say sorry over text... this will be the last time I ever reach out to her. I be crosssing the line but I need to speak my mind and tell her I really am sorry...

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • How do you get a girl back?

    I kissed her once and she said we could be the best ever..... we stoped talking and being friends because I confronted her on "being the best ever", I cursed her out real bad over text. We didn't talk for a yr until we meet for coffee. She totally wanted to kiss me and was bragging how she was single, but after how it last played out I didn't.... we made plans to hang and she flaked on me instead of saying no to begin with(probably bc she wanted to kisss me) ....i said bad things over text again. I tried apologizing over text, told her i loved her, and she said she call the cops on me. Idk, I have never raise my voice at her, called her a bad name in person, only over text.... it started with best ever to I'll call the cops on you. It's been 6 months since we talked. I haven't apologized in person.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • How do you get a girl back?

    She said we could be the best ever. Then it was I will call the cops on you..... I insulted her two times over text, shared a secret she wasn t suppose to know, and rejected her kiss attempts many times because I was confused. She said we should be friends after I kissed her once, I didnt want to lose her friendship. It s been 6 months since we last spoke..... the only thing I ve done bad was send immature disgusting texts, and only after she flaked on me. I never have raised my voice at her, hit her, or called her a bad name in person. She wrote a letter saying I was the best guy to treat her. 6 months since we last talked. 2 Yrs since we graduated high school ..... IT WAS ALL OVER TEXT, this is why I m so pissed. sadly, it all started when she said best ever and I flipped on her Bc she said we should only be friendss

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • How do you apologize and be friends again?

    These past 2 years this girl and I got into fights over text, we aren't talking right now. She said we were best friends once, but here's the catch.. She's been teasing me and I have been too scared to make another move on her because we kissed once and she said we wanted to be friends. Anyways, the last time I saw her was back in January and she gave me ever sign she wanted to kiss. I didn't cause it was the first time we saw each other in about a yr., due to a fight... We made plans to hang and she lead me on for a month only to flake... I got pissed and called her bad names again over text and now she really really won't talk to me. It stinks but believe me... their was a deep bond between us... she wrote a letter saying I was the best guy to ever treat her and I'm like her very best friend. I reached out to one of her old friends asking to say sorry for me but she didn't respond. I don't want to look creepy and ask another one of her friends. So what do I do? A psychic told me it would take a while before she forgives me... I don't want to wait around another year, how should I handle this? I'm not stupid to know that the way she looked at me she wanted me. She toyed with me and it was enough to 2nd guess myself. If I could take it back I kiss her again

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • How to let go of the one you loved?

    It's clear now I messed up with this girl. I should have kissed her but always had to 2nd guess myself. I know I'm confident in my conversations and could have gotten about any other girl in this situation,but she had that something that made me act like an unconfident scaredy cat. I mean I have had crush on her since high school school and she was the first girl I reallly really liked. I would do almost anything to win her back and be her friend again, but clearly that's not going to happen and there are better matches for us. It hurts thinking about it knowing that if I played it right it could have been really really special. She said we could have been "the best ever" and I can't let that go. It's too late now cause I called her every bad name in the book and she won't talk to me. What's some tips to dim the pain of messing up with a girl you had fallen head over heels for?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • How do I fix this mistake and win her back?

    e we're really close once. We havent talked for a yr due to a fight, but met a month ago for coffee. She won't respond to my texts anymore. She said we could be the best ever once.. I sent her some long text making me look weak. Why can't she say it's done instead of ignoring me? How do I handle this? Is she playing hard to get? I feel like a needy ***** when she doesn't respond . The **** do I do? I just want be her friend again. It's not over til she says it's over... ignoring my texts doesn't count as ending it! I will annoy the **** out of her til she says it's over, that how far I am willing to go for this girl! She means a lot to me and I want to fix my mistake. How do I get her to remember how genius and special our friendship was. In all honesty, we were the closest

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Can I win her friendship back?

    My friend and I got into a fight and ended our relationship for a yr. she said we could be the best ever but she was with her bf (ex currently). This made me mad and was why we ended it. However, just recently we met for coffee exactly one month ago. She said she wanted to see me again, but has been busy this past month or was lying. I texted her, " do you want to see me again? I'm sorry how I ruined everything and it would a lot to be your friend again." She didn't respond.. later that night I asked, " do you want to bang? You said it could be the best" Bc 1. She said we could be the best ever 2. I had nothing to lose bc she isn't responding and I never asked her that before. ... I let that stand for the night and texted her the next day, " I'm sorry about those texts last night. I don't want to date or have sex with you, you mean more to me then sex could offer. I just want to be your friend like old times. I'm truly sorry about everything." I really really care for this girl. Being her friend again would make me so happy! I'm not going to text or communicate for two weeks and then try again. Is there anything I can do to show her how much she means to me? I don't want to lose her. ln all honesty, her friendship means more to me then sex could ever give. Is there a chance I can win her back? I think she just needs some time or I should let it go.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Do I have a chance with her? Can I save the friendship?

    Me and my friend got in a fight because she said we could be the best ever but decide to date her ex still. That made me pissed so we didn't talk for a year. She is single now and we meet a month ago to hang.....she has been canceling on me to hangout so I asked her last night, " are we friends or not" and she didn't respond. Then I asked, " wanna bang" because I had nothing else to lose.... This morning, I sent a text saying I was sorry about last night and how I cherish our friendship more than sex. All I want is to be her friend. I only asked about s x because 1. She isn't responding, so might as well ask if she won't see me again 2. She said we cold be the best ever........ what's your opinion on this? Should I let her go for good? Is there a chance I can save this friendship?

    1 AnswerAbuse and Spam4 years ago
  • Should I let go and move on?

    I was best friends with this girl once. We kissed once a way back. It's been a month since we have hanged due to her cancellations.. I told her last night " it seems like you don't want to see me, can you tell me instead of me guessing "... she didn't respond. At this point I had nothing to lose so I ask, " do you want to have sex. You said it could be the best ever once"... she really did say we could be the best ever one time. Anyways no response..... what do I do now? I just want an answer. If anything I told her friendship was way more important to me then sex. In all honesty I be her friend over sex hands down

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • What do I do now?

    I was best friends with this girl once. We kissed once a way back. It's been a month since we have hanged due to her cancellations.. I told her last night " it seems like you don't want to see me can you tell me instead of me guessing "... she didn't respond. At this point I had nothing to lose so I ask, " do you want to have sex. You said it could be the best ever once"... she really did say we could be the best ever one time. Anyways no response..... what do I do now? I just want an answer. If anything I told her friendship was way more important to me then sex. How do I get her respond? I'm not giving up until she says something

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Should I end the relationship for good?

    Ive known this girl for 4 yrs. We were really close once and we made out a long ways back. Anyways, we got in a fight and ended it (deleted phone numbers etc). She said we could be the best ever, while she was with some guy. That made me piss, and was why we stop being friends..... anyways, we meet a month ago for the first time after a yr without talking. The moment was right and I should have kissed her but didn t because I didn t want to rush things. It really felt like she wanted me to kiss her.... Like I said, it has been one Month now and I Have texted her multiple times to hang but She was sick once, busy, etc. I told her I want to be her friend again like old times and don t care who she is dating (I was friends with her while she was dating, didnt bother me). So do I end it? I m the only one who is texting at this point. She wouldn t give me her number again unless there was something.... how do I get her to text me?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Is she playing hard to get or should I move on?

    I've known this girl about 5 yrs now. We kissed once and thought we should be friends about 3 yrs ago. The friendship was like a step shy from dating... Fast forward, we got in some silly text argument and broke the friendship off for a yr. Just recently, we met for for coffee two weeks ago. Every indication I got was that she wanted to kiss me. I didn't cause it was the first time we met in a year!!...... Anyways, she said she wants to meet for lunch but Canceled on me last time. I don't want to annoy her so I haven't texted her in about a week . Is she just teasing me and never going to see me again? She wanted to take it slow cause we ruined our friendship. Do I text her? Anybody have a similar experience? It seems like it is on her terms and I feel like if I txt her, I'm not given my her the space she needs.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • What do you when she doesn t text back?

    We meet for an 1 1/2, the first time, after a yr of not talking. She said she had to go to her moms. We hugged goodbye and she rubbed my arm as we were walking away. I m either delusional or I was getting the impression she wanted to do bedroom stuff. When we hugged her face went close to mine. I should of kissed her cause she "said she didn t have a bf" honestly I m hooked on her. Anyways she canceled on me to hangout because she was tired after spending a night at her exs. Like the ****, she totally banged her ex. I gave it a couples day, and told her "God I miss our friendship" over text ... she might text me tomorrow but, the **** do i do? She also might have my pants from way way back and I already kissed her way way back too . If anything, I miss being her friend. She s out of my world and I can t get over her

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • What do you when she doesn t text back?

    We meet for an 1 1/2, the first time, after a yr of not talking. She said she had to go to her moms. We hugged goodbye and she rubbed my arm as we were walking away. I m either delusional or I was getting the impression she wanted to do bedroom stuff. When we hugged her face went close to mine. I should of kissed her cause she "said she didn t have a bf" honestly I m hooked on her. Anyways she canceled on me to hangout because she was tired after spending a night at her exs. Like the ****, she totally banged her ex. I gave it a couples day, and told her "God I miss our friendship" over text ... she might text me tomorrow but, the **** do i do? She also might have my pants from way way back and I already kissed her way way back too . If anything, I miss being her friend. She s out of my world and I can t get over her

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Can I win her back?

    I be had a weird relationship with this girl. At one point she said I'm nicer then all other dudes and make time for her. Anyways she asked me about dating two months ago and now she is back with her bf.... I swear when ever she has guy trouble she come right back to me. However... That's not the case this time. I told her how I felt and she basically deleted all contact information from me. She said we could be the best ever and now this happens.

    She thinks I screwed up our whole relationship. It's not my fault, I was trying to figure out if we were friends or more. Just like when she asked me. .... Anyways how do I win her back? Steal her from her bf and **** her like we should have years ago?ive invested too much time to be this close to the finish line. It's unfair how she teased me over the years and not giving out. All I want is to bang, just to see what it would have been like

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Is she intrested in me at all? Did I screw things up already? I'm confused by her behavior?

    So I met this girl at a party last Friday, today is Wednesday. There was an obvious sexual attraction but I didn't kiss her.

    Anyways... The next day I messaged her saying we should hangout! We were going to but something came up for her. She really seemed sorry and hoped we could hang another day

    I'm still texting her but it's on like three messages a day most. Sometimes she won't respond for hours. The last thing I want is to blow up her phone. I'm starting to think its cause of my messages( me being to weird). Do girls normally do this (take hours to respond)? Is she playing hard to get? Or is this a sign that she isn't interested? What's the logical explanation for this behavior from your experience? Like I said it was obvious we had sexual tension. At one point she tried to touch my arm. This girl seems very mature to her surroundings and always noticed when I walked in the room! ...if that helps

    FYI we are one year apart and I go to college in five days... Should I wait for her response or just text her asking to hang? I like to see this girl over the summer if possible. Anything helps!!!

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Should friends date?

    This girl and I have been friend for years. She just broke up with her boyfriend and straight up asked me what she thought of us dating. She said sometimes if it works, it can be the best ever.

    But she led me on in the past and frequently that **** sucked. I guess she is tried of assholes. Should I date her and give her a second chance?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Do I tell her the truth or lie?

    I told this girl I wouldnt smoke weed. Unfortunately I did.... I feel like I should confess when she asks me. But, if I tell her the truth, I will let her down. I know she saw the amazing qauilties I have. I really really wanted to prove to her that I m better then that! But I ****** up .... So if I lie, she thinks I am a good person. Her feelings don't get hurt and I just have a guilty conscious.... Is it better to lie or tell the truth? I already feel guilty as is and I don't want to make things worse.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years ago
  • In love with a friend?

    Okay so this girl and I are really close (best friends). Out of all my lady friends, she is the closest. In other words, we have a strong genuine connection. If something were to happen to our friendship, we both would be devastated. People have mistake us as bf and gf haha.... Sadly, she lead me only only to get friend zoned. She was like the first person I cuddled with and kissed (this happened last year and I can't still move one). To make it worse, she is really really attractive. She is like ideal match for me... Anyways, it is tearing me up inside. I think about her constantly and can't seem to let go. I have liked her for three years and I want it to stop. We have talked about it and THERE is seriously no chance of us dating... EVER. She said our friendship is too important for anything bad to happen.

    So how do I move on? And don't say I can't.... Im tired of this. She obviously doesn't like me that way. It flat out sucks ****. I should be happy that she is seeing someone else, but it makes me anything else but sad.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating6 years ago