How do you apologize and be friends again?

You will learn A LOT from the MISTAKES you make. Even when you know the Right Thing to Do or Say, next comes your Confidence Level. My people give more power to their Weaknesses, than they do the Right Thing.

Then heir is REGRET. Isn't that what happened with you and How You Feel NOW??

There are tricks to get by all of this. It will still require Confidence, but not as hard or scary as you might think.

CONFIDENCE is not about Succeeding. It's about NOT BEING AFRAID,

to Step Up, whether you get Accepted or Rejected.

After you get Accepted or Rejected, YOU WILL "Quit"

Torturing yourself with Worry and Curiosity.

THIS IS HOW YOU APPROACH the tough things:

The following is information you will need one day:

(for this girl or the next)

TO GET A DATE, without having to ask:

INVITATIONS and ASKING for a Date are the same thing, but an invitation is easier to offer, rather than ask for a date. Writing a note and handing it to her or having someone deliver it to her, will be okay. Most invitations are in WRITTEN FORM.

(add ph# so now She has it)

Texting an Invitation will also be Okay, after you get her number.

Tell her where you will be on a certain day and at a certain time.

Let her know she is welcome to join you if she has time.

EXAMPLE: "I'm going for ice cream after school/work at (location),

you can join me if you're not busy... My Treat."

YOU WON'T HAVE TO FEEL EMBARRASSED if she declines.

It was just an invitation, NO BIG DEAL.

HOW TO BE WITH SOMEONE; ONE ON ONE

Make a wager (bet) with the person you want to spend time with.

Lose that bet to them INTENTIONALLY.

The wager should be something that puts you together alone and

away from everyone you know.

Make the wager something you can afford and non threatening

or too suggestive.

(an ice cream cone, a milkshake, a coffee, even washing a car)

EXAMPLE: "I'll bet you an ICE CREAM SUNDAE, I can say

the alphabet backwards faster than you."

Then LOSE the bet and take her for an Ice Cream Sundae.

(Enjoy Your Date)

TO HOLD HER HAND

(you DO NOT have to be on a date, you just have to be near her)

When you have been with her for awhile and are side by side (walking, standing or sitting) gently take her hand and Say: "Can I borrow this for a little bit? I Promise to take care of it and return it in awhile" She will smile and probably be Impressed and Flattered. If she flinches and pulls away, chances are it’s a REACTION, NOT REJECTION. Smile and give her something of yours as deposit/collateral and Let her know you want it back when you return her, her hand.

TO GET A QUICK KISS. As long as she is enjoying herself with you. In the middle of a conversation, Smile and say: "Close your eyes, you have something close to them". When she does, Touch your lips to hers. Not really a kiss, but it breaks the ice. Then tell her: "Oh it was just me. You have soft lips, I like that". Keep smiling. Ask her what yours felt like, before she says anything. But keep smiling.

Your biggest FEARS are NOT knowing What to SAY or How to do Something. It's like taking a test. It's NOT so scary, once you know the answers. Driving is NOT so scary, once you're behind the wheel a few times. Same with the Opposite Sex.

Practice and Experience equals, PIECE OF CAKE.

Every BF/GF Relationship that you see, happened because

ONE OF THEM took a chance and spoke up.

DO NOT PLAY IT COOL... every chicken does that,

then the BadBoys and Jerks end up getting her.

EVEN IF YOU LOSE THIS GIRL,

This Info Is Still Good PRACTICE For You.

THERE WILL BE MORE GIRLS IN THE FUTURE.

OR YOU CAN KEEP TORTURING YOURSELF... How much Fun is that??

I would say GOOD LUCK, but you don't need it. You just need to PRACTICE.

To get her attention again:

TO INSURE A RESPONSE:

WOMEN USE THEIR BODIES, MEN USE CURIOSITY

Usually the only reason people can't let go of something they lost

is because they don't have closure.

If you want ONE LAST chance at contacting to her...

THIS IS HOW IT'S DONE:

Send this person a FLOWER, "NOT A ROSE", a flower.

On the card write your full name, "Nothing else".

Full Name in case you have a popular name and

they know more than one person with your name.

Find a way to have it Delivered or a way to get it to them.

Let curiosity work its magic.

Even if they don't contact you right away,

the curiosity of what the flower means (message) will play with their mind.

When they have had enough self torture,

they will seek you out.

You NEED to be ready with what you have to say,

this maybe the last/only chance you ever get.

Don't blow it!!

If it's this person you want back,

come up with ideas that make them smile and feel special.

If they are bored or lonely, these "Sweet Nothings" will go A LONG WAY.

Best time to send messages:

On a Tuesday, because it's a "Ho-Hum" kinda day OR Friday, because it's the beginning of "a possibly" lonely weekend. These will be your best times.