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Is she intrested in me at all? Did I screw things up already? I'm confused by her behavior?

So I met this girl at a party last Friday, today is Wednesday. There was an obvious sexual attraction but I didn't kiss her.

Anyways... The next day I messaged her saying we should hangout! We were going to but something came up for her. She really seemed sorry and hoped we could hang another day

I'm still texting her but it's on like three messages a day most. Sometimes she won't respond for hours. The last thing I want is to blow up her phone. I'm starting to think its cause of my messages( me being to weird). Do girls normally do this (take hours to respond)? Is she playing hard to get? Or is this a sign that she isn't interested? What's the logical explanation for this behavior from your experience? Like I said it was obvious we had sexual tension. At one point she tried to touch my arm. This girl seems very mature to her surroundings and always noticed when I walked in the room! ...if that helps

FYI we are one year apart and I go to college in five days... Should I wait for her response or just text her asking to hang? I like to see this girl over the summer if possible. Anything helps!!!

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  • 5 years ago

    I hope that when you start college, you'll have enough time, energy and focus for your classes, instead of obsessing about texting, kissing, and whether a girl likes you, especially one with whom you have not yet developed ANY relationship. If you are hounding her with multiple messages per day, you most likely will scare her off, and rightly so. Try to be more normal: if you still get the opportunity, tell her you are going away but would like to see her this coming summer when you return, and let her answer be your guide. Chances are, by summer, you both will have moved on to others. Good luck,

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I'm a girl and I take forever to reply a guy I really, really like. It's not because I'm playing hard to get, but more like the anxiety of it. I take forever to think about what to say and I have to re-read the text over and over again before sending (If I REALLY LIKE the guy)

    This may not apply to all girls but I'm always categorised as being "extroverted" and yet I still behave this way. This only happens when I start texting a guy who I barely talk in person, though. If I talk to him regularly in person, it's easier to text him and I don't usually take forever to respond as opposed to not really talking in real life.

    hope this helps x

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