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Guy nice one second and mean the next, why?

So me and my housemate (there's four of us in total) have a bit of a turbulent relationship.

For example he got me a free day pass at his gym I joined him and his friend and now he make sure he goes without me/avoids me, and if his friend doesnt go he wont even go if Im going. I was a little offended but then he starts acting nice (outta guilt ? i dont know)

This evening he asked all of us to go to the pub quiz with him and his friends, when I asked if the other two were going he was like "oh I'm not good enough for you then?" I told him he went to he gym without me yesterday he said "yer I went to the gym without you today, Ive been going without you for months!" then my other housemate said "you could ask her..." then he got all pissed and stormed off saying to forget it!

I dont understand why he acts like hes trying to avoid me one second and is nice the next.

WhY IS THIS?

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  • 6 years ago

    He probably likes you but doesn't have a lot of success in relationships. Maybe he doesn't know how to react to how he's feeling. explain that you aren't going to put up with him changing his mind every two seconds, and maybe that'll help.

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    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    he's got a problem - ignore him and live your life

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