Je Suis Moi

So my boyfriend dumped me the day I moved back to uni (he is at uni here too) And he dumped me just because I couldn't talk on the phone as I was in the middle of watching a film, he told me it was over and to delete his number.

I tried calling a couple of times to reason with him but he just told me to leave him alone. A few days later he called me and asked how I was and was checking I hadn't done anything stupid, I asked him if he was still mad at me and he said "well I'm still your friend right?" i said I wasnt sure, we continued to talk on a civilised manner about general stuff not the relationship.

After that I didn't see him till today (couple of weeks later) I bumped into him I was outside smoking, he just walked past and said "smile" ....

I don't know if he was being awkwardly friendly or saying it to piss me off as he knows I hate it when people tell me to smile.... anyway I just kinda acknowledged him by nodding my head. I stupidly texted him after saying sorry if I seemed rude but its awkward seeing him atm.

Anyway why didn't he just ignore me or just say hi? why tell me to smile?

So my boyfriend dumped me the day I moved back to uni (he is at uni here too) And he dumped me just because I couldn't talk on the phone as I was in the middle of watching a film, he told me it was over and to delete his number.

I tried calling a couple of times to reason with him but he just told me to leave him alone. A few days later he called me and asked how I was and was checking I hadn't done anything stupid, I asked him if he was still mad at me and he said "well I'm still your friend right?" i said I wasnt sure, we continued to talk on a civilised manner about general stuff not the relationship.

After the conversation I haven't messaged him or called him.

I have him on my FB and stuff still but haven't heard from him since (in a week)

Is it best I just continue to not contact him? also why does he want to be my friend so soon after breaking up? Is it just to ease his guilt?

Hey everyone I'll try and summarise this.

I just moved back to UNI to study for my post grad course.

I had been home for 2 months, everyday my boyfriend called me, he and me normally get on great occasionally we have disagreements like anyone but we mainly trust and care for eachother.

Yesterday I was coming to move into my new place, he called me in the morning and we had a brief chat but he sounded a bit irritable but ok.

After unpacking and food shopping me and my housemate sat down to watch a film, I knew my boyfriend was working in the evening so I hadn't texted or called, also I was super busy, but he hadnt texted me either.

Anyway he called halfway through the end of the movie,

I did stay on the phone to him but I told him i was in the middle of watching a film with my friend, he sounded annoyed and said "ok im bored already bye"

I texted him saying let me know when youre home , he said "whatever"

Eventually I called him and he was so mean, saying I didnt care about him, and that he needed me as he was having a panick attack when he called (which I didn't know he was having, but we both suffer with them) He accuses me of not caring about him being attacked the other night, and told me to delete his number and leave him be.

This guy at my uni asked to take my photo (he is on the photgraphy course) later I found him on FB and asked if he would send me the photo he replied and said he would do it when he got a chance.

Two days later I bumped into him at the local uni bar and he approached me.

Him and his friend (maybe boyfriend?)

approached me, he was friendly and he spoke about the photo and said it looked "naughty" I asked what he meant he said a bit "perverted" the way I was smoking in it. Anyway I guess my question is , do you think this guy is gay and just being friendly? or is he straight?

I have a few gay friends but also straight guys that act camp so I don't know....

This guy at my uni asked to take my photo (he is on the photgraphy course) later I found him on FB and asked if he would send me the photo he replied and said he would do it when he got a chance.

Two days later I bumped into him at the local uni bar and he approached me.

Him and his friend (maybe boyfriend?)

approached me, he was friendly and he spoke about the photo and said it looked "naughty" I asked what he meant he said a bit "perverted" the way I was smoking in it. Anyway I guess my question is , do you think this guy is gay and just being friendly? or is he straight?

I have a few gay friends but also straight guys that act camp so I don't know....

We used to get on sometimes, but also we argue a fair bit, I think we care about each other to some degree.

Recently though whenever it's just us two there is just an awkward silence, other than hellos and goodbyes, and occasional small talk.

Why is this? we can chat if we are in a group,

My housemate can be nice/caring but sometimes he is really mean.

Also I feel like he has insulted me on several occasions, I feel ugly/unattractive as it is but he always has to have digs at me about it like, we were walking with our other housemate and she said to me about my dildo in a jokey way, he turned around and said "I dont wanna know, I never want to think of her like that AT ALL"" and acted so repulsed it made me feel like a disgusting peice of ****.

It isnt the first time he has done that, he said it once when I mentioned fishnets as in the tights, (just a convo with another friend ) he was like I DONT WANT TO KNOW! and again he made a joke about his male friend getting turned on by me and said it was disgusting.... like Im so vile no man should ever want me...

I know Im sensitive but it hurts my feelings... he would joke about those things infront of me about himself and I dont say things that harshly, like i might say ok too much info but thats all.... am I over reacting? why does he have to keep reminding me how he views me I get the point....

My housemate and me have an odd relationship. We argue a lot (and not always in a jokey way) Sometimes he cats like he cares and other times he can be a right ***hole.

Anyway I was super drunk one night and he kept mentioning this girl I used ti live with he met her like once. He though she was a good friend of mine, and told me how he send her a friend request on FB, then he said he was disappointed she didnt go out tonight, I really dont like this girl (i dont mind if he is chatting about other girls it dont bother me) I got super pissed and upset and told him id catch up with him, then when we got back he kept trying to figure out what was wrong with me, he knew I spoke to this other friend of his about it and asked me why i could tell his friend and not me, and he said "How can I help if you wont tell me whats wrong,? you were fine before I mentioned Denise (the ex housemate of mine) I didnt tell him.

I was drunk but why did he keep pestering me does he think I like him now? and if he knew that why was he trying to get me to admit it when its obvious he dont like me either?

Would you feel awkward seeing a girl come out the shower in just a towel? (would it be worse if you found her attractive ?)?

Would you feel awkward seeing a girl come out the shower in just a towel?

Would you say sorry and would it be different if you found her attractive or not?

So me and my housemate (there's four of us in total) have a bit of a turbulent relationship.

For example he got me a free day pass at his gym I joined him and his friend and now he make sure he goes without me/avoids me, and if his friend doesnt go he wont even go if Im going. I was a little offended but then he starts acting nice (outta guilt ? i dont know)

This evening he asked all of us to go to the pub quiz with him and his friends, when I asked if the other two were going he was like "oh I'm not good enough for you then?" I told him he went to he gym without me yesterday he said "yer I went to the gym without you today, Ive been going without you for months!" then my other housemate said "you could ask her..." then he got all pissed and stormed off saying to forget it!

I dont understand why he acts like hes trying to avoid me one second and is nice the next.

WhY IS THIS?

I was stood in the kitchen with my house mate, he told me he had got Tinder (dating/hook up app). I told him I have it too. He only just came out of a very long term relationship.

He then said "yer, I really need to f*** someone other than my ex,"

I just said "well I guess it wouldnt be sensible to do anything serious right now"

the he said "yer I am up for that"

only thing is I don't know if he was just mentioning it to me as a friend (we only been living together for 4 weeks with two other people) or if he was saying it to hint at something.

I just thought this is the kind of thing he would talk about to his male friends.

what do you think?

I met my new housemate very briefly before coming home for summer. We have a mutual friend.

I tried adding him on FB a few weeks ago he never responded.

I then got a request from him on another account, he said someone had hacked his old account but kept it active and was sorry for not adding me (I was confused as he must have been able to get into that account to see my request? ) Anyway hes been chatting to me constantly, I noticed he has no relationship info to show on this profile but on the other he had a girlfriend, is this a little dodgy to you?

I met my new housemate very briefly before coming home for summer. We have a mutual friend.

I tried adding him on FB a few weeks ago he never responded.

I then got a request from him on another account, he said someone had hacked his old account but kept it active and was sorry for not adding me (I was confused as he must have been able to get into that account to see my request? ) Anyway hes been chatting to me constantly, I noticed he has no relationship info to show on this profile but on the other he had a girlfriend, is this a little dodgy to you?

My fiancé had a new photo on fb, and this girl commented him asking him where his curly hair went, he replied "in your heart Betty" I noticed she likes his photos/comments a lot, and he has used a nickname for her (all on FB) I asked him how he knew her and he said they met in a hostel when he went away with his friends earlier this year....

I spoke to our mutual friend who was with him on the trip, eventually they told me he and this girl had been flirting a lot, and he had asked her for a kiss, and said some sexual things to her,

I dont know if im over reacting?

My fiancée had a new photo on fb, and this girl commented him asking him where his curly hair went, he replied "in your heart Betty" I noticed she likes his photos/comments a lot, and he has used a nickname for her (all on FB) I asked him how he knew her and he said they met in a hostel when he went away with his friends earlier this year....

I dont know if im over reacting?

My fiancée had a new photo on fb, and this girl commented him asking him where his curly hair went, he replied "in your heart Betty" I noticed she likes his photos/comments a lot, and he has used a nickname for her (all on FB) I asked him how he knew her and he said they met in a hostel when he went away with his friends earlier this year....

I dont know if im over reacting?

My fiance had a new photo on fb, and this girl commented him asking him where his curly hair went, he replied "in your heart Betty" I noticed she likes his photos/comments a lot, and he has used a nickname for her (all on FB) I asked him how he knew her and he said they met in a hostel when he went away with his friends earlier this year....

I dont know if im over reacting?

My fiance had a new photo on fb, and this girl commented him asking him where his curly hair went, he replied "in your heart Betty" I noticed she likes his photos/comments a lot, and he has used a nickname for her (all on FB) I asked him how he knew her and he said they met in a hostel when he went away with his friends earlier this year....

I dont know if im over reacting?

I made friends with some guys on holiday at a hostel, he started recording me, when I said why are you recording he told me it was to show his brother/friend or something... (p.s the guy had been flirting with me and made sexual comments towards me) so i was a little concerned