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AWKWARD does my housemate think I like him now?
My housemate and me have an odd relationship. We argue a lot (and not always in a jokey way) Sometimes he cats like he cares and other times he can be a right ***hole.
Anyway I was super drunk one night and he kept mentioning this girl I used ti live with he met her like once. He though she was a good friend of mine, and told me how he send her a friend request on FB, then he said he was disappointed she didnt go out tonight, I really dont like this girl (i dont mind if he is chatting about other girls it dont bother me) I got super pissed and upset and told him id catch up with him, then when we got back he kept trying to figure out what was wrong with me, he knew I spoke to this other friend of his about it and asked me why i could tell his friend and not me, and he said "How can I help if you wont tell me whats wrong,? you were fine before I mentioned Denise (the ex housemate of mine) I didnt tell him.
I was drunk but why did he keep pestering me does he think I like him now? and if he knew that why was he trying to get me to admit it when its obvious he dont like me either?
1 Answer
- Cyber AristotleLv 76 years ago
I disagree with the way you've handled the issue. The guy was talking about Denise in a way that he thought you'll approve. If you're not keen about listening to a chat about her, then all you had to do was to tell him that anything about Denise makes you uncomfortable. And you would rather the two of you changed the subject. But as it were, you went and told a third party who has nothing to do with the issue.
The mature way for this issue to have been resolved was for you to have been honest to him about your strained relationship with Denise. I'm sure he would have promptly changed to a more pleasant subject which you would have both enjoyed discussing.
Please don't expect any guy to be able to read your mind. Mind reading is not any guy's forte. If you want to avoid misunderstandings, then be honest and sincere about your likes and dislikes. I think you should apologise to the guy for involving a third party in the issue. Else, your relationship with him would become strained, and he might think your way of handling conflict lack maturity.
For now, it's difficult to tell whether he likes you or not. If you really want to know, then get closer to him and communicate with him a lot more.
I hope this helps.
Good luck!
