I never had sex in my life. Am I a loser?

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This might come across as a joke to many, but I am 22 years old (soon to be 23) and I have never had a girlfriend or sex. Guys around me in my age are all outgoing and cool having lots of sex and relationships with girls and stuff, and it just seems like I am the one who can never even learn to ask girls out - even if I have the opportunity to do so.

Lately, there was a girl I really liked, but I came to know that she has had sex with 2 guys. This kinda came as a shock for me, I mean, I know I should just learn to get over it and move on, but for some reason I cannot forget it - I don't know why, it just won't get over my head, and I feel sad and depressed.

What can I do?

Thanks a lot for helping!

Nate · Answer

Hmmm, that's a tough one. I was kind of in your same boat for a while. I'm a guy and lost my virginity at 22. Our society makes sex out to be this huge deal when really it isn't. I didn't feel much different when I lost it. But I get what your saying about when you think about how many people a girl you're interested in has slept with. It can hurt to imagine her being so intimate with someone else. Two is actually a pretty low sex number though. You should get used to finding out they've had sex with like ten or something because that's probably the average for your age. I'm 24 and have only had 4 sex partners.

itsallicanstand · Answer

Don't worry about it...Sex comes and goes. I'm 29 and have never actually had sex. Their are a lot of people thjat can't say that . You will find the right person.

Anonymous · Answer

at 22 you are a late bloomer, if you are a virgin and as picky at 32 you might be a loser

? · Answer

You are not a loser.Better to be a virgin that someone who does with everyone.

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