Men are actually the catch not woman.?

Amen! I couldn't agree more with this statement. Good looking women are everywhere. Men with all of the characteristics listed above are much harder to come by. The problem is, most men and women don't come to this realization until it's too late to use it to there advantage. Men who do exhibit these qualities don't typically realize how valuable they are until they are either married or in there early 40's. Women figure it out in there late 20's and early 30's when they are single and thinking about all of the nice guys they turned down in favor of the bad boys that typically treated them like crap. The men who do realize it in there 20's are either the ones who get married young or use the knowledge to manipulate women into thinking they are exactly the person they want them to be. That's the way it is though and I don't see how it would work otherwise. She who carries the vagina, holds the power. Attractive women are getting attention from everyone and until the "good catch" guys learn how to compete with the smooth talking bad boy that the younger girls want, or the younger girls learn to see through the bad boys pickup strategy, things will never change. haha it's fun to think about though.

Preach brother! Also with the unfair and bias divorce laws, a man willing to get married is another quality to be admired.

Wow. You are quite full of yourself