Should I break up with the girl I love?

I ve been dating a girl for almost 2 years, and love her dearly, but i find myself thinking of breaking up with her.

We re both 25. Without getting too into it. i just find myself unhappy quite alot. She is always scared of upsetting people, anybody, family, friend, strangers, and i feel i always have to try help her with this stresses she brings on herself, but she always find something to be stressed about.

I just came out of a surgery this week, and came to visit her, and rather than recovering i feel i have to take care of her.

I feel I m losing respect for her.

We haven t had sex in 3 months. She either is on period, too busy too meet (rather doing extra work out fear someone will think badly of her), or forgot her pill. And she didn t trust condoms.

I have to specifically request her to go anywhere near my penis, (she NEVER did it off her own accord) cos she finds 5 mins is too long to get someone off.

I m fed up of feeling like a dirty old man trying to coherence someone to have sec with me, rather than a loving relationship where sex is normal.

She is a lovely person, but this constant stress she introduces for no reason, and the absence of any sexual progress. Are really getting to me.