What should I look out for when it comes to this guy?

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I met a guy recently whose situation with homelessness is like mine. He gets SSI and I have a job, at first when he suggested that we partner up and help each other out I thought that it would be okay. He wants to find us a place to live but Im starting to see some pit falls he says he is falling madly in love with me, and wants to make love to me, I feel like it will be something he wants all the time, because now he asks why I dont always give it up. I want to get back into college and finish up my classes soon, but he keeps talking to me about paying for things with money I dont have right now. I refuse to clear out my savings account for anything right now. He also keeps telling me to forget about school and live on section 8, I dont want to be on section 8 the rest of my life.
 What should I do.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

First of all, He's on SSI for a reason. Mental or physical disabilities. He gets his own money, why would you have to pay for his stuff? He can easily apply for housing and get in within 2 years. Why has he not done this?

? · Answer

Avoid him. Run away. NOW. This sounds like a guy who's just out to take advantage of you, and you really shouldn't get sucked in. Find a place to live another way. Do NOT go with this guy.

Michelle · Answer

Im with Finwie, run away and don't look back.  You have to take care of yourself first. Being with this guy will only bring you down. Get away from him.

Prof · Answer

You have appropriate goals and should aim your life toward them. His goals are to take advantage of you. Let him prove his love by getting a job and paying for the things he wants. That's unlikely to happen, so you should run, run, run.

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What should I look out for when it comes to this guy?

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