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? asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 5 years ago

My fiance is pregnant.. she is treating me different.?

She is about 1 month pregnant. We found out about a week and a half ago. She has been a total different person, she doesn't hug, kiss, cuddle anymore. We fight literally almost every day over the stupidest things. I literally feel alone and unimportant to her. Is this normal?

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  • 5 years ago

    Yeah it is actually. The early stages of pregnancy can be extremely uncomfortable with cramping and very sore breasts. When I was in my first trimester I didn't want to be touched at all simply because it hurt so much and my hormones made me overreact to things that wouldn't have bothered me at all beforehand.

    Pregnancy can have a big impact on your relationship and your fiance may struggle with it. Talk to each other and let her know you understand. You are very important to her but she is going to be spending a lot of her physical and mental energy typing to cope with some huge changes to her body.

    It might be worth having a look around your area or online to find a support group for you for expectant fathers/partners where you can find others experiencing the same thing.

  • Hannah
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    5 years ago

    The hormones that are circulating in a woman's body when she is pregnant can cause her behaviour to change. It is totally normal, just try and understand, I know it is hard. Maybe gently try to talk to her about it.

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