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Would you feel insulted if you held the door open for your girlfriend and she didn t say thank you for it?
I got to tell you, I recently go into a relationship with my new girlfriend a few weeks back. If there is one thing that admittedly bothers me is when she doesn t say thank you for when I open the door for her AND for when I treat her several times for dinner. She said she loved me when I told her I loved her, but I don t feel that way. I feel like the things I do for her is not being truly appreciated. It seems like every time I do something nice for someone I get a slap in the face for it. What exactly did I do to deserve this? Am I just simply loving too hard? I mean I love with the up most sincerity. When I m in a relationship I don t half *** my way through it, I give it my all and I don t feel I deserve a slap in the fave with the way I make girls feel appreciated. Should I tell my girlfriend this? What should I do?
5 Answers
- 5 years ago
You are correct that your girlfriend should say, "Thank you" when you open the door for her and when you take her out for dinner, etc. If she does not thank you she does not have good manners and that is not the kind of girlfriend you should have. Break it off with her. You ae a gentlemanly young man and you need to have a nice girlfriend WITH manners.
- Anonymous5 years ago
Well if I was you I would talk to her about how you feel about it and if she doesn't care, then theres nothing you can do but move on to a different person that will actually appreciate the things you do for them.
- Anonymous5 years ago
She wouldnt know if you dont tell her about it. Maybe she feels close enough with you, she doesnt think its necessary to say thank you. My parents sometimes hold door for me and I dont say thank you, and we dont get offended. I think you dont have to go out your way to hold door for her, just let her do it herself, if she mind you are not holding door for her, then you should talk to her about it. If she doesnt mind, then I think she just doesnt feel its necessary because you guys are close enough.
and as a girl, and I held door for a guy and he doesnt say thank you, I probably wont get offended. Maybe I will joke around him about it, but I wouldnt care about it.
- Anonymous5 years ago
Wsit awhile. If she doesn't say anything when you do it let it know it bothers you. Be casual about it don't come across grumpy..could you answer mine plz?
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