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How to get my boyfriend to be romantic?

So Valentine's Day is coming up and he says he isn't doing anything because it's a stupid day of the year, he never says he loves me and he isn't romantic one bit, I mean we are in my bedroom and the lounge every day doing nothing he doesn't cuddle unless it involves sex ... What can I do

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    In this case, you don't. You dump him and move on.

    Sorry it's a crappy time of year for that, but he doesn't respect you. There are better men out there. Enjoy being single for a while.

    Personally, me and my spouse do nothing special on Valentine's Day. It's a con that's good for restaurant and other retail trade. We love each other every damned day and can be romantic whenever we want.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    He's not the type to whisper the secrets of the world in your ear agree with the others get a new boyfriend.

  • 5 years ago

    yah...the romance is never gonna happen because he's using u for sex...That's really obvious...Jesus 😂 My boyfriend is more exciting for Valentine's day then i am..You can definitely tell when a guy's in love.. get a guy who would treat you well...don't get stuck with that one...

  • john
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    He's correct. It is a stupid day and he's intelligent enough to see through the consumerism of it all. Once again, what are you doing for him?

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  • 5 years ago

    Dump him. If he cared about you he would want to make Valentine's Day special for you.

  • 5 years ago

    You are not going to be able to convince him to care about a holiday he thinks is "stupid" or change his basic personality. This is a losing battle. Either accept him as he is, or break up with him and find someone who gives you what you're looking for.

    Source(s): 44 years old, been in lots of relationships, seen a lot of relationships
  • John W
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    If you want more romance you're going to have to find a different guy because it is never going to happen with this one.

  • 5 years ago

    Change boyfriends. He is who he is and does not necessarily need or be able to change his personality. Somebody will want him the way he is. And somebody wants you the way you are.

  • 5 years ago

    Dump him

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    its plain he only wants sex and you cant change his ways

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