Do I have "transvestite fetishism"?

Simply getting aroused by cross-dressing doesn't necessarily mean you have a transvestic fetishism. To constitute a fetish you have to use it as a substitute for your need for human intimacy. If you are keeping it under control, function well in society (good social skills and self-esteem), and have a good sense of reality, then you really shouldn't worry about it.

Exactly what do you have? About 3-4% of normal, healthy, heterosexual males identify as cross-dressers. Their brains are hardwired to interpret cross-dressing as actual contact with a female, and their brain releases a host of feel-good neurotransmitters (dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin and others). These neurotransmitters produce sensations of well-being, pleasure, comfort, sexual gratification, bonding and self-identity. You cannot stop your brain from releasing neurotransmitters, but you can keep your cross-dressing under control. The majority of crossdressers keep their cross-dressing private. They get married and lead normal lives, but they also have to keep their cross-dressing limited, and have to accommodate the tolerances of their wives and family. I would advise you to join a forum to discuss this part of your life with other crossdressers: http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/forumdisplay.p...

That does sound as if you are. If you're really concerned about it, schedule a few sessions with a gender therapist to get a handle on your identity.

Kek, if you like wearing a girls clothes, you certainly aren't normal.

That means you are probably a Crossdresser.