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He doesnt want a relationship but acts like we are and keeps asking to hang out?

He took me out and we made out and went pretty far but no sex. After a couple dates and hangouts i asked him what he wants and he said he doesnt want a relationship though he acted like he did (cuddling, holding hands ect) I said ok and i thought we would end it there and we stopped talking for a week. Now he wants to take me on vacation and go for movies. IM SO CONFUSED. WHY IS HE DOING THIS??? what do i do???

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    He is basically doing that because he is bored. He is using you for his own amusement and recreation. Girl, you are more than just a "ooh im bored, time to play with my dolly." One day, when he has found another doll, he will leave you. If you are ready to get hurt, then you stay by his side. If you want things straight, if you want a proper relationship, you ask him what he really wants and if he really wants YOU and not the JOYS that you give. If he's just "uhh," you leave him. You don't deserve a guy like that.

  • 5 years ago

    Sounds like he wants a friend with benefits..he said it himself he doesn't want a relationship, but is cuddly and affectionate with you. He is talking to other girls most likely..he's trying to get you to warm up to him so you'll let him have sex with you. Some guys will say/do whatever they have to so you'll have sex with them, it is up to you to figure out which ones genuinely like you and which ones just want a booty call. Good luck !

  • 5 years ago

    talk to him

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