jennifer

He is my 35 year old private coach and I'm 18 female. I've known him for 2 years and always had a good normal relationship until recently. He started to text and call me a lot just to talk, ask to hang out in the middle of the night, drink, comment on my body and appearance, hugs me and wouldn't let me go. I told him I need a break from everything in life including him because of personal issues but he then convinces me he can help me but he's really just giving me more trouble. He just had a child and I feel like he is trying to live through me and be a teen again. I'm so confused and I feel so uncomfortable around him now. What do I do?

He s my dance instructor and we ve known each other for 2 years. We always text and stuff but my friends think it s weird to go for dinner and such. He has a kid and a wife.. there s deffinatly no "relationship" except a brother and sister. Some of my friends think it s ok as he acts as a brotherly figure and cares about me but my other friends think it s wrong. My mom personally really likes him and i think it s discusting for people to think we have a relationship. What do you think about a 17 and 34 year old just casually hanging?

This guy approaches me at the gym and he started talking to me. He asked me if i ws single and i said yes then he asked me for my number and we texted briefly the next day. During our conversation at the gym he said we should hang out sometime like 3 times. He hasnt ask me to hangout yet and its been like 2 weeks. Do guys just casually say things like this or is he just waiting for a good time. He told me hes a busy person but 2 weeks is a while

Theres this gym at the gym. Im 18 and hes 24. He started talking to me and yhen he followed me around and sat next to me and continue to talk. At first i just thought it was just normal gym convo as the usual gym goers always have snall convos. But he then said we should hang out and asked me for my number. Then he asked me if i was single. Im confused if hes just being friendly because hes actually very attractive and im quite a bit younger. It doesnt match up hahah

Only one friend who is a very good friend does this. She takes advantage of the fact i have a car. I always drive her if it is in my convenience but she does makes me drive her even if it is not. She would go to my place and get me to drive her simply for a ride. She gets me to drive her to work when i live the opposite. Even in the middle of hanging out she would ask if i can drive her home first because she wants to leave. Its getting annoying and ive told her but she thinks im joking. How do i get her to stop asking

This guy i met at a club asked for my number and i gave him it. We hung out for the night but we both made it clear we wont be seeing each other outside the club. Now he changes his mind. In the club he asked me for a kiss and i said no and he said he would rape me as a joke??? I instantly told him off and said im gonna go hang out with other people but he kept clinging onto me. Now i regret giving him my number because he wont leave me alone even though i tell him we arent going to see each other. I have him on social media and have mutual friends so blocking him might anger him. What do i do???

I got sick 3 days after a hectic weekend. If it was 3 days after can it still be caused by over exhaustion. So i had a 2 day rave first night was 6 hours long i didnt stop dancing and i also went to the gym before. I Got home at 3am. Then had work at 6am so i slept an hour and a half. After work i had a breakfast with coworkers then hit the gym again. I went back to the rave for another 6 hours and got home at 2am. I tried napping but i was so full of energy. I didnt and dont feel overly tired. So what do you think?

He took me out and we made out the first date and we hung out 2 times after that which was both very physical. I told him im not going to have sex with him and he was understanding. I asked him where this is headed and he said he doesnt want a relationship. I assumed we would just be friends going forward and nothing else. We stopped talking for a bit and now hes asking to take me on a trip and go for movies. So he made it clear he doesnt want a relationship. I made it clear we arent gonna have sex. What is even going on here?

He took me out and we made out and went pretty far but no sex. After a couple dates and hangouts i asked him what he wants and he said he doesnt want a relationship though he acted like he did (cuddling, holding hands ect) I said ok and i thought we would end it there and we stopped talking for a week. Now he wants to take me on vacation and go for movies. IM SO CONFUSED. WHY IS HE DOING THIS??? what do i do???

I met this guy 2 weeks ago. He took me out and we made out. It was cute and hes a nice guy. He doesnt text me very often but hes always asking to hang out. He came to my friends party and we almost had sex but he asked and i said no. He didnt ask for anything else. What do i do? Im planning on talking to him about this but does it sound like hea looking for hook ups?

he would reply maybe 5 hours later everytime. I dont craze text him either and i dont need him to always be talking to me but its kind of weird. Most of the time he initiates the convo by checking up on me usually at the same time everyday. I have my doubts that hes interested in me then right after he plans to meet up. I always have a good time when im with him but since hes in college working and im in high school its not very often... he tells me sorry he is bad at replying as he doesnt want to text at work but its not only during work times...does it mean anything that hes so bad at replying? Or do some people just not like texting

This guy and i are a week and a bit in. We got to 3rd base and he asked if we could have sex and i said not this time. Hes deffinately not a virgin but i am. I want to make sure that this relationship is going somewhere before it happens. So how long do you think its reasonable until you have sex?

I met the guy a week ago and we spent the night together. I didnt intend on having sex. He asked me if its ok and i said not this time. Well thins got heated..he took off my clothes and got to third base. He didnt force me to do anything and made sure i was ok with things. I wasnt comfortable with sucking him off so i just gave him a hj now i feel disgusting, guilty, and just gross. Should i be feeling this way? How do i stop. Im going crazy cant look at myself in the mirror...

Hes such a nice guy. Im 18 and hes 22 and only met a week ago. He took me out on a date and we made out. Next i threw a party and he stayed over. He asked me if ive had sex before while we were getting it on and i said no and he appologized and took it slower. Later the night he asked m to take off my clothes and he kissed me all over. It was getting really heated and he asked if he should get a condom or not this time. I said not this time. He is a great guy but does it mean anything that a guy will want sex so early in meeting?

If hes feeling you up while making out, where do you put your hands? If you rub him outside his pants will it give him the impressiom to have sex? I dont want to. If i dont want sex should i just not touch him there?

In normal situations thats moving quite fast. I met this guy at a party and we made out. He got my number and asked to meet up. Is he expecting me to be open to doing the same? If you were him would you expect it?

I made out with this guy at a party. He asked for my number and said that we should do something sometime. The next day he texted me asking if id like to hangout this week and go for dinner. Im confused if its a hang out or a date. My friend says that you dont hook up then just go hang out as friends.... when guys ask girls to go out one on one is it a date?

We met a couple days ago at a rave. We danced and made out. He was repsectful and didnt do anything i didnt out of line. He has a great job and education. He asked me to go for ice cream. Is he asking me out or just to hang out as friends?

Im 18 and hes 22. He was very respectable. He didnt use my body like many other guys did (i removed myself from the situations). So far i know he has a great education and a great job. He asked me to hang out this week but my friends dont like the age gap and the fact i dont know him other than dancing and making out with him. Is the age gap a problem? Should i be worried about meeting up?

Im 17 and im trying to figure myself out. I danced with this guy and was pretty physical i met at a rave and he asked me to go back to his hotel after. I declined. I know alot of people my age are hooking up randomly. What are your thoughts?