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I wanna see her again but I'm not sure if she wants to see me, should I text her?

I've been talking to this girl from school for like 6 weeks and we don't see each other at school but we talk and chill outside of school. We only really hang out when she asks me because every time I ask her to go somewhere she says she can't or ignores me. I flirt with her, she used to call me night, she knows I like her, and for some reason she wants me to move in with her and her friend when we graduate. We've cuddled a lot, like she came to my house and were all over each other but we've never kissed or had sex. I was flirting with her yesterday and she said "you want me so bad don't you? I know your dirty thoughts lol." So we got into this conversation about us just being friends or more. I want her so I asked if considered me more than a friend sexually because she already told me she doesn't want a bf. She said no, she doesn't want any kind of relationship or commitment because she has a lot going for herself right now and she doesn't need someone pulling her down. I tried to tell her I wouldn't be pulling her down but she said that she didn't wanna hurt me and that she is a nightmare. She said that if we did have sex she would stop talking to me afterwards. We haven't texted in a while and I want to text her but the only problem is that if I do I will want to ask her out and she probably won't go. But on the other hand if I start talking to her a lot she asks me out. Idk what to do, a need a reason to text her or something.

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  • Ham
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Whatever you do, focus on knowing her better through friendship. Don't let sexual hormones step in the way. She needs fulfilling of her soul, not a purely physical relationship.

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