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Should I make a move for male coworker, and how?

I have a job offer and will be resigning from my current position in two weeks.

My coworker crush and I work on the same very large floor in different offices. We meet in Decemeber during the company holiday party and we had a nice chat about our positions and education. The conversation was very causal and it felt very comfortable taking to him. After we spoke, while mingling with other people I caught him giving me the eye.

To be honest, ever since that encounter I have been intimidated by him, because is very good looking, has a higher rank in the company, and is about 10 years my senior. I saw him on another occasion and was like a deer in headlights.I think he might have sensed that and maybe took it for stand offishness.

We see each other everyone now and then but all he says is hi and keeps it moving.

I just wanted to know if I should make a move and how. It would not be the end of my world if I didn t/ was rejected. I m just trying to be a little more outgoing in life I general and don t want to have any what ifs when I leave.

Your thoughts?

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Easy !! Explain to him you are leaving in 2 weeks and will miss him. Suiggest that you and others within the Company that know you, meet up for a drink on last day. After all the goodbyes, suggest you keep in touch with him.

    Hopefully he is not married or has a partner.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Yes make a move and see what happens.

  • 5 years ago

    Sorry for all the typos. Typing while at work

  • Mike
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    ask him out for a drink before you leave

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