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My friend hooked up with a guy who likes me?
So this guy's liked me for a really long time and I don't like him back. Partly because he whores around, partly because he likes my sister, and I'm just not interested. Anyway he would always try to get with me and say how I'm the only girl he wants blah blah blah but I always turned him down. Then we just kinda stopped talking.A few weeks ago, my friend had sex with him. A few days later he's messaging me again saying the same **** "I still have a thing for you, I only want to be with you" but I didn't know what to say. I had already known about him and my friend so I was annoyed that he was talking to me saying that. What do I do? I'm not interested in him but should I mention it to him that I don't want anything to do with him because of that?
3 Answers
- 5 years ago
What kind of a hook-up was this? Does your friend have feelings for him and feel like he has feelings for her? Or did the two of them just casually hook-up?
If you don't like this guy, I would just tell him that. Don't be mean, just be clear. I don't think it's really necessary to bring what happened between him and your friend into it; while it might feel like you're sticking up for your friend, you might just be making this guy think that the only reason you aren't into him is because he hooked up with your friend. And then that just pulls your friend into the drama.
If your friend really likes him and feels like he likes her, however, I do think it's worth mentioning to your friend what this guy is saying to you—just so that she isn't blindsided in any way.
- Anonymous5 years ago
To me, it sounds more like, that you are interested in him but you don't wanna admit it. Why would him having sex with someone else bother/make you jealous?
I could be wrong, but if you think, you're genuinely not interested, just tell him that you are not.
- PatriciaLv 75 years ago
If you're not interested in him, you're not. You can't force that sort of "chemistry" or attraction to a guy.
And here's a heads up -- guys will have sex just to have sex and it doesn't mean they are all emotionally attached to a girl because of it. It's the way of the male.
He seems taken with you, but again, you can't make yourself like him. And no, don't mention the sex... he won't "get it" or why you don't want anything to do with him because he had sex with someone you know. To him, it was just sex... and yes it was "just sex". Nothing more on his end.