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What this guy do about his situation and girlfriend?

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My girlfriend of one year has two kids (son 6, daughter 4) from two "thugs" (her own admission). Neither of these lowlife losers have been remotely active in their kids' lives. When she was involved with these losers, then she provided everything for them (money for beer, movies, clothes, food, etc..). She admitted that she literally took care of these losers because she truly loved them and really wanted to make those relationships "work".

As a result, my girlfriend claims that she will never be taken for granted by another man again. Initially I understood her viewpoint so I continued to love, respect and spoil her as I've done with past girlfriends. I've been especially kind and loving to her kids as well (playing Santa at Christmas, birthday presents and spending quality time with them).

Last month, I asked my girlfriend to "loan" me some money ($250.00) for a late car payment. I knew that she had the money to loan to me so I told her that I would repay her on the following Friday. She simply said, "No, you need to work something out !" Angrily I reminded her that I've done more for her than both of her lowlife sperm donors together. I reminded her that I intended to repay her for the loan. Finally, I asked her to leave my home so that I could cool down.

Her loser sperm donors got the royal treatment and treated her like crap. I "step up" and treat like a real man should and she abandoned me in my (temporary) time of need.

What should I do?

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  • Super
    Lv 4
    5 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    She is being extra careful in case yoi leave her, and you actually proved her right. You told her to leave your house, and this is not something she deserved. She already told you that she will not be taken for granted in future. She needs time to trust you and you need to work on your anger issues to make her trust you. Give her time to trust you.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    That is exactly how it started with the sperm donors. Started off nice and then started wanting stuff. We have all been there and done that. You should have made sure you had been saving regularly and had extra money in the bank to cover all contingencies. Looks like you are turning out just like them. You did not step up like a real man and take responsibility for your own mistakes. She has seen what you are really like now.

  • Jason
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    sounds like she got it wrong a third time

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