How do I ask a guy out?

I think the secret to talking to guys, if there is one, is to be both relaxed and confident. If you can do those two things then chances are that the guy you will speaking to will feel relaxed and enjoy your company. Also, don't worry about conversation topics - you can literally talk about anything! Remember, there is every possibility that the guy who you are speaking to will be feeling just as nervous as you! With regards to the coffee shop scenario, if you see a guy sitting by himself, I would go up to him and ask him if you can sit at the same table as him and go from there. Don't worry too much about flirting - that will come naturally in time; just focus on making conversation. Hope I helped :)

Always speak with your eyes, they have a language all their own. Make eye contact, notice if he is looking at you. Look away and look back over at him, is he looking at you? Did you catch him looking at you? I will tell you like I have told my daughter, get up and go hand him your phone number on a sheet of paper if you are afraid to come out and talk a lot, that will say it all. YOLO, "you only live once" you cannot be concerned with the one that you could have at least tried to catch. Remember when you give them your phone number, you then have left that ball in their court and as I tell Loryn, so what if they do not call.... at least you put yourself out there and you do not have to wonder about why he didn't ask you out or come and speak to you! Remember, many guys are shy too, sometimes it tasks a special woman to make her own move, and believe it or not most men find this a turn on that a woman approached them!

Hey, asking out a guy or flirting with them on your meet up, will most probably creep them out. Become friends and then flirt casually.

Just straight up