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So in short I started talking to this girl after her boyfriend cheated on her right before he went to bootcamp. We've hung out a lot and she said to take it slow so all we've done was kiss. I REALLY like her but I dont know how to not be a rebound. I thought I was doing well until yesterday she went and hung out with an EX(She said they're just friends but still). I was asking about it and made it obvious I was jealous and she said "No offence but you kinda don't have the right to be upset that I hung out with an ex." Like I thought kissing meant we were together? What do I do. Dont say give up because I wont.
Should I ask her out? Because I was planning on it today
1 Answer
- ?Lv 75 years ago
Give up NOW, in order to not have to give up later.
If you carry on dating her now, you WILL be the rebound guy. It's clear she's not over her ex.
Oh and you had EVERY right to be upset she hung out with an ex. Unless they have children together there's no reason to stay in contact with an ex, and it's impossible to remain 'friends' with someone you used to love.
Give her say 3-6 months and see how things are then. Right now she isn't ready, and if you continue trying to cling on to her, you will lose in the end. If you let go now, there may be a chance in the future.
