is there somebody who donates money for fertility treatments? someone who gives grants?

I'd suggest you do a Google search. I was once part of a Yahoo email group years ago back in 1998 for people who had miscarriages. The group split into another group for those who were having fertility issues and treatments. The group started a fund where each person signed an agreement and donated at least $10 a month. After 6mts all money in the fund went to a person in the group then it started again. A few of my online friends received a good bit of money to help with their treatments. Since they were on the receiving end according to the agreement they signed they had to remain in the group and donate money each month to at least payback each person who donated money for them. They did this. The group remained active for about 5yrs that I know of and then I left the sister group.

So I'm guessing there are groups out there that can help you. You have just got to search for them. I'd also suggest you make sure the groups are not a scam. I personally wasn't in the group that donated month each month and my husband felt it wasn't safe, but I was touched by the kindness of everyone and how they wanted to help each other. One of the women in the group had a husband who was a lawyer. He was the one who drew up the agreement you were suppose to sign. So to me it seemed safe.

I'd suggest first looking for websites with forums where people can support each other. Look more for personal websites too created by couples struggling. Maybe look for blogs too & Facebook groups.

I have a few friends who have been through fertility problems and struggled to get money for treatments. I also have friends who have struggled to get funds together for adoption too. It's sad it costs some people so much money to become parents.

You don't mention where you live but some insurance policies cover infertility treatments

Also you can start your own GoFundMe campaign and post it on Facebook, Twitter, etc and ask all of your friends to share with all of their friends

A friend of mine recently posted a campaign to raise money to pay fees for an adoption agency and she has received over $3000 in donations in the past 2 weeks. She posts updates every day and makes sure to personally thank every donor. And she also has asked all of her friends to post on their walls even if they are not able to donate

Check with your insurance company to see if they offer riders or other plans that cover this.

Check with your insurance company to see if they offer riders or other plans that cover this.

Will the NHS not help?

Why?