Is this a good sign that we are "in a relationship"?

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Hello, I met a guy in kinda an unconventional way. At the time I was in a struggling relationship and I began talking to this guy, who is 11 years older than me, online. This guy who I met online actually ended up living in my town, so we started to hang out with each other. We went out to lunch first, and now I've gone to hang out at his house about 5 times now and stayed the night the most recent time. I've been going back and forth because I am not sure what he is thinking. He took me out to dinner the other night and he mentioned at dinner that his company is having a party at a fancy beach club in our town, and he would like me attend it with him (so everyone he works with will be attending).

I am just curious if this is a sign that he's starting to see us as "in a relationship"? I know I need to talk to him about it first, but just curious if people think that he's starting to see us in this way.

I am just curious if this is a sign that he's starting to see us as "in a relationship"?  I know I need to talk to him about it first, but just curious if people think that he's starting to see us in this way.

Sur La Mer · Answer

When you've gone into someone's house like 5 times, & spend the night there, YOU'RE ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP.

If you're insecure about your body image, I wouldn't go to anyone's BEACH PARTY, specially when there's a lot of people there. That's like flaunting YOU, like the Miss Universe! Do you even know where he works?  Have you done some searching around?  He is 11 years older than you and it sounds like you're moving in TOO FAST, just because . . . .

I am beginning to see where this relationship is going!

Jackie M · Answer

he has been invited to the party and has no one to go with so you are his plus 1, I think you are thinking to deep into this,Good Luck

Anonymous · Answer

Umm keep it to urself.

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Is this a good sign that we are "in a relationship"?

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