Moving to another city for wife?

You can't build a marriage if you live in separate cities. Why be married if you two are going to continue as you are now? You might be able to find a higher paying job in her city or she could scope out the job market in your city and see if she can find something. It would be a good idea to have a job in the new city, before moving, so you don't have to rely on 1 person's income for weeks or months while the other person job hunts.

What did you discuss and agree to before you got married? After all, where you live and who would be relocating surely was something you talked about before agreeing to get married, right? What would her job prospects by you be if she were to be the one relocating? Right now she makes 30% more than you do, would she be able to get a job making the same amount in your area? I understand there is a difference in your tenure versus her tenure at the job, but you aren't exactly pulling in a huge paycheck for all that seniority. If your small pay cut is less than $150 a week, it's worth moving.

I have been married for 28 years. I would only want to be apart from my husband very temporarily and for a short time, he feels the same. I have moved for his jobs 8 times to different cities and states (my work is more portable). To have a marriage and a family it is worth the move.

Don't you think it's worth a lot more than $500 a week to get to LIVE with your spouse?

If you guys live in different cities and your on the fence because a job. She's not the one for you.

It sounds like a rushed marriage, that should have been decided long before you got married.

It's worth the move.

What us wrong with you, move and hurry up, or she will find someone else to sleep with, are yiu stupid !