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I don't feel the same way for my boyfriend anymore and I don't know what to do?

So I've been dating a guy who started off as a friend for about a month now, and I had had a crush on him for at least a month or two prior to dating. He had a girlfriend at the time so I didn't intend on doing anything about it, and even when he broke up with her I still decided to keep it low key, but he ended up making the first move and I was honestly really, really happy. For the first few weeks it was perfect, he is a complete sweetheart, he gets along so, so well with my family and friends, and he and I just work so well together in general. He told me he loved me after only a few days of dating, and I reciprocated because that's how I felt at the time. But only in the last couple of weeks have things changed for me.. I seem to have lost the spark while his seems to be fully ignited still. I don't feel the same way about him anymore, and I feel absolutely terrible but when we're together our time seems to drag on, I don't enjoy getting very cuddly, and I don't know why but I actually dread kissing him... I feel so, so bad. I don't know where this is coming from and I wish it wasn't like this, but I've been really trying to push the negativity out but I can't seem to bring myself back to that point of being happy with him and wanting to build on our relationship. I know this isn't even a good reason to break up with him, but it's not fair to drag him along if I'm harbouring feelings like this. What do I do? How do I end this without hurting him too much?

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  • 5 years ago

    If you don't think this is a relationship that is going anywhere, if you don't feel the same anymore, then that IS a good reason to end it. You need to tell him what you've said here - that you don't think this is working out, and you don't enjoy your time together anymore. Yes that might hurt in the short time, but it's far better than the hurt he'll feel if you drag this on.

  • 5 years ago

    Dump him

  • 5 years ago

    Because you want masculine man, nice man cannot make you sexy

  • 5 years ago

    you fool that man

    what is your pleasure

    whats your aim

    isnt it boring to fool and bore that man?

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