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Brenda asked in HealthMental Health · 5 years ago

Do I have a drinking problem?

I'm 17 years old, I know you might think wow you're too young but you see I feel so depressed so down on myself for certain parts of my life. They are all going down hill, I don't know who the hell I am anymore. Sometimes at night for example like today when I find myself crying I feel like feelings kind of like this feeling I used to have when I was young (when I used to cut but stopped) that I need something to make that feeling go away and once I taste that beer I feel so much better I feel grounded. I know myself getting addicted to it, I don't want to since it looks bad on a girl. I have ways on getting it and I will literally do anything to get it. Well not anything as in sell myself but you get me.

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  • 5 years ago
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    It's great that you are reaching out and trying to get some support! It sounds like you've been going through a lot, especially with your depression If you haven't reached out to a parent or other adult that you trust, you should really let someone know how you've been feeling so that you can get some help. A counselor or therapist would be able to help you come up with some alternative coping skills to use instead of alcohol.

    There are also a lot of resources online for finding coping skills and ways to get help. Another good option is always to call or chat with a hotline when you start feeling like you need to drink and get some immediate support.

    AS, Counselor

    Source(s): Boys Town National Hotline -- Available 24/7 at 1-800-448-3000 -- Teens and Young Adults -- Check out www.yourlifeyourvoice.org
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Just know drinking or doing when things are going bad is nothing but an escape from your real problems and they will come back. You sometimes have to go through the lowest of lows to get to the highest of highs. Sometimes people get stuck in the middle but you have to realize that you have to take progressive logical small steps to get higher. I'm not tryin to motivate you with some cliche motivational general speech without knowing your background and context but I wish you the best.

  • 5 years ago

    honestly i dont think you have a drinking problem, but i think you need to try and be more positive. like try meeting up with friends, dont be alone otherwise you'll start to overthink. like i overthink and theres nothing wrong with it, but you need to try and control. people find colouring stress relieving and helpful. listening to happy music. and try and feel good about yourself, like say to yourself **** depression and stress and anxiety and all that. also talk to someone, parents or a close friend. but like you're 17 and strong

  • 5 years ago

    If you're asking that question, the answer is yes.

    Source(s): Recovering alcoholic
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