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Should I be concerned about my girlfriend cheating.?

So I've been dating this girl for almost a month now. She seems sweet enough. She's got her baggage but so do I. Anyways, she has guy friends, some of which she dated at some point in time. One guy in particular she goes to his house on occasion to hangout. She always has since before we dated. They've been friends for 8 years. Thing is, I've been unable to perform in bed recently due to impotence. Is she banging this dude behind my back?

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago
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    Sorry to be blunt, but yes, she's going to cheat, probably already is. A girl that hangs out with her ex will bang him, and blame it on getting drunk one night. Built-in default excuse.

    And it has nothing to do with impotence, even if you were completely fine, it would still be happening. I can't advise you on how to handle asking her to stop seeing this guy, that's a separate question that you'll need advice on. But you do need to somehow ask her to stop seeing this guy, the sooner the better, or get out of the relationship yourself.

  • 5 years ago

    I have no idea. Some girls do, some don't. Honestly, ask her. I don't know if she'll lie, but you could ask him too. Worst comes worst, you still are suspicious. Dump her if you are.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    She seems to have few guys in her past, but does not want to let go of them. Worth asking why she hangsut with this guy.

  • Eli
    Lv 6
    5 years ago

    Best use that tongue and finger game my boy.

    They could just be good friends mane, do you trust her? is this coming from insecurity due to impotence?

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  • 5 years ago

    Stop worrying yourself. If she wanted to be with him I think she would. She is with you because she wants to. Talk to her about her friendship with him and what it means to her. And stop worrying youself then you should be fine again, it happens when a guy is stressed. So talk to her and relax.

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