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Why do I tend to date guys that take advantage of me?
I dated this guy for over the year and he cheated on me. Thinking back I think he was using me for my money and to get something from me. Because he never took my out anywhere fun or even called me on my birthday or valentine's day. And he posted pictures of the girl he cheated on me with all over his Myspace and put engage as his status and was always talking about her. While when in was with me he had single as his status and didn't have anything about me on there. At least he loved her.
And then I found someone else after. We been together for 2 years. Then one day he decided he didn't want to be with me anymore. So he message me on Facebook and said we ended this relationship because it's a dream. Oh wow! Then I later found out he was married and had a 3 year old son! He been married for about 4 years. I think he was using me to get something from me. I felt like he was the tremendous waste of my life. I wanted to get married and have children.
Why is stuff like this always happening to me? And why do they use me for over 2 years, not seeming to care the bit about wasting my time?
4 Answers
- ?Lv 75 years ago
I'd say that everybody has this kind of tendency at first, when they are inexperienced in relationships. But then they learn from their experience to choose more wisely.
Women, who haven't yet learned from their experience, tend to choose the best-looking guy in the room. And that's where their problem starts. Because the best-looking guy has plenty of other women who like him too. He can easily find another relationship with another woman. Which means that he doesn't have a good reason to value his relationship with you.
If you want to avoid trouble in the long-term, then choose a guy who has some difficulty making friends with women and who can't easily find another woman to have a relationship with. Because a guy like this has a good reason to value his relationship with you. Which motivates him to treat you well.
- AdamLv 65 years ago
I've come to learn that the more effort and time wasted on such relations for the worst are brought about through being steel-eyed on the particular bad sort. Changing your parameters of attraction and appeal to combat this effect is a start
- Anonymous5 years ago
You missed the Red Flags, you can't always believe what some guys tell you, you have to investigate.
No one likes a doormat.
Source(s): Listen to your Intuition.
