Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

la asked in Politics & GovernmentLaw & Ethics · 5 years ago

Do I act like I know nothing or tell her I know everything and exactly what I think of her?

My first job was a horrible one, I had a lot of problems with my manager, so did everyone else but I was because I was her 2ic it meant I had to deal with it the most and when I raised that we had an issue by making a meeting with her and the regional, it got worse and no one listened. I was transferred to another store (for no particular reason, they do that with managers and part timers in low profit stores) and my manager went to a different one (I also had the option to go to the same store with her, I said no.) Once I was transferred I had some other problems with the new manager, she didn't train me or even show me where anything was in the store and one day she confronted me with something that wasn't done and I tried to explain to her that it wasn't something I have done before/I needed help with and tried to tell her why but she started to talk down to me and told me I was giving her an attitude (which I really believe I wasn't, I was just getting frustrated because she wouldn't listen to my reasoning's) and threatened me with a non-compliance so basically I had a big emotional break down which had been building up for a while and told her I couldn't be there anymore, cried, told her I had to go home and quit the next day. So since then I found out my first manager was fired a few months after I left, I first heard it was because she filled paper work wrong then found out it was because her and the regional manager store $10k... (more in update)

Update:

I see her in public every now and then but I manager to avoid her so she doesn't see me, but I know one day I wont be able to hide. I'm doing really well now.When I see her I want to be rude to her.I know I shouldn't but I feel like I just have to, I know karma fixed it but I still don't feel like I can move on without telling her exactly what I think of her, it was my first job! I feel like just saying ''yeah I heard you stole $10k'' and watch her explain her self, I don't want her as a friend.

3 Answers

Relevance
  • 5 years ago

    "My first job was a horrible one, I had a lot of problems with my manager, so did everyone else but I was because I was her 2ic it meant I had to deal with it the most and when I raised that we had an issue by making a meeting with her and the regional, it got worse and no one listened. I was transferred to another store (for no particular reason, they do that with managers and part timers in low profit stores) and my manager went to a different one (I also had the option to go to the same store with her, I said no.)"

    Quite a run-on sentence. You continue to prove that you're only marginally literate.

    You're inability to get along with multiple manager indicates to any reasonable person that it's you. Fix your attitude. Combine an improved attitude with no longer crying at work and your employment prospects might improve.

  • Greg
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Your call. But if you really want to mess with her, make up an even crazier reason why she was fired and let her explain the truth. "No, I didn't sht on the break room floor and leave it!" You: "Oh, so why did you get fired then?" She will prolly lie. Then you can say, "I was just messing with you, same way you messed with me. I know you stole that money." And walk away head held high lol.

    Or say nothing and be productive with your life, which is what I would do.

  • 5 years ago

    Lets hope by the time you do have to speak to her you mature to a level to see how petty such a comment would be, and realize its based upon unproven gossip too. Would you like to be accused of things you were rumored to have done too by random people in your past? Karma works in different ways. Let it go and move on with your life.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.