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Is what I said bad to my ex-girlfriend?
I ve been with my girlfriend for 4 years. She recently broke up with me and doesn t want to talk to me. So I wasn t sad even though I enjoyed my time being with her and fell in love with her. I just told her "Okay, bye, I wish you all the best in your future. I am always open to being your friend. You have my contact." I always stay positive and hold no resentment to anyone and hold no negative emotions under any circumstances.
1. If you were my ex-gf, how would you have taken what I said to you?
2. Is it bad to always stay positive under any circumstances?
3. Is it bad that I never get sad or cry whenever a girl I am seriously in love with, breaks up with me?
She was really angry at me and even told me to stop contacting her. I still mean what I said to her. No matter how long time has passed, she will always have a spot in my life.
6 Answers
- 5 years ago
no it was not bad at least you did not call her any bad names or anything so no it was not bad what you said to her and thats great remember the good times not the bad! you sound like a very kind person actually.
1. i would not have not taken it in a bad way i would have actually thought you handled it very maturely
2. no it is not bad to act positively in any situation it is better than b!tching and thinking negatively in every situation it only makes you feel worse
3. no it means you are strong and there is nothing wrong with not crying or being upset it is how you personally deal with it
wish you the best of luck :)
Source(s): you told me to answer your question and i have been though break ups! - 5 years ago
I'm a girl, and honestly if my boyfriend of 4 years had said that to me even though I broke up with him I would seriously be mad. I know because you're telling us that you really do wish her the best and mean it, but she doesn't know that. The way you said it makes it seem like you don't even care, like that 4 years didn't matter. You should be putting up a fight for her if she really mattered to you and you wanted her in your life again. It's the effort that counts, you just say it like you're easily letting her go. I would also be very upset about it too..
- Anonymous5 years ago
I can Relate in a way man but it was vise versa with me my ex stopped talking to me out of nowhere and I found out she liked another guy when the guy didn't want her two months later she tried to get back with and I said what you said I don't hold any grudges/bad feelings and wished her the best at the end of the day we all gotta move on and look forward to the future
- 5 years ago
Being positive is part of maturity.. although you should have shown her that you care about her and don't want to lose her.. if you don't feel pain after break up, it means that you didn’t love her enough
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