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Why is no one ever interested in me?

I have a good career. I am outgoing. I have an interesting background. I'm good listener. I am well known in my community and respected for community service. I'm decent looking, not at all overweight, and take good care of myself. I'm open minded. My only standards are: No felonies in the past ten years, no drugs, no kids.

I've only dated one person in 11 years, and that person was not really interested. They just wanted to hook up every few months or so when I was in town, but didn't ever want me to come to visit, if that makes any sense.

So, what's wrong with me? Am I just that awful?

Update:

By the way, I'm 37.

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  • 5 years ago
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    You sound great on paper. What's your approach? Do you have any ex gfs who you're still in touch with who might be able to provide insight?

    What about being vulnerable, do you come off as too cocky or too available? You should be vulnerable enough to not seem full of yourself without being desperate.

    You're likely to get the most accurate and reliable answer from asking someone you know.

  • 4 years ago

    I haven't dated in 12 years. I don't really have any ex's to ask. My friends just say I'm not sexually attractive. I know it's got to be more than that.

  • 5 years ago

    I'm surprised,,,,you sound wonderful! I would ask someone you know well, that is the best way to go, someone that knows you well could probably give you the best answer, I know how you feel, it's hard to find good people!

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