What size wheel and tire to put on my 2007 jeep wrangler sahara unlimited???

Hey guys I recently bought a 2007 Jeep Wrangler sahara unlimited. when I bought the jeep it already had aftermarket wheels on them. It has 17" mb wheels with 30" wrangler ditrac tires. They look good I suppose but it isnt lifted so the turning radius is a bit bad, and I also don't like the skinny "pizza cutter" look of the tire. My original plan was to buy 20x12 fuel Hostage and put some 37x13.50 nitto trail grapps on it. Then I started to look a but deeper and saw that my jeep also looked quite aggressive with some 22x14 feul Hostage on 37x13.50 trail grapps, and last but not least I found some 20x12 feul hostage with the same tire dimensions. I showed a few of my friends but they said "the tired are to bulky" or "those tires are too wide" I personally want aomething aggressive and lifted, as I want to add a 4" superlift on my jeep, but finding tires to also make the jeep look bad *** is quite hard as well. Can someone please help me choose on the tires above? Or have any of your own? I'd appreciate it. THANKSSSS